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Hi Guys, i have two questions as below, could you kindly give me some advices?
When you strive for something, but it can't achive the instant result, you don't want to share it with your family your friends, but you almost can't hold on, you feel so confused. Normally, what will you do to release your negative emotion,to refresh your energy ?
Do you have this kind of exprience ? your parents urge you to get married. but for some reasons, you don't want to get married so early, even currently you don't want to fall in a relationship ? how can you persuade your parents ? i have no ideal about it.
To many people, come back hometown to celebrate the lunar new year is happy thing; but to me, i feel pressure at the same time. haha
So many complex things need to be sloved in the forthcoming year !
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- Reply sunnyv
- I remember my mother once told me that unhappy days are more than happy days in our life. There are more failures than success. We are always burdened with something. In school we fail in some subject. In work, somebody always do better than us. There is always somebody around us who look better than us. All these things combine into one to make us feel a failure. However, we are not fair to ourselves when think like that. Everyone has some advantage over us and we also have some advantage over them. You are good in some things but others are not so good. Take English langage for example, some university students can't write proper English, but you can because you have tried your best to be good in this language and succeed. This shows you are a capable person and can succeed in anything you really want. You are the envy of others but you don't even know it. Do not underestimate yourself. Just put in more effort and you would succeed.
As for parent's pressure for marriage, I think you have a proper attitude. You won't marry unless you meet somebody who you can spend the rest of your life with. Nobody should marry on impulse or just marry because friends are getting married. An impulsive marriage would only lead to endless misery and regret with divorce as the end result. Marriage is not easy because you have to come across the right partner first and that partner has to feel you are suitable too. Fate also plays a part too. Nobody knows when your Mr. Right would appear before you. You may not like the person sitting next to you, but you may like a person very far away. Marriage can't be rushed. Patience is required. When you can't find a suitable person, there is no need to despair. There are plenty of people who are single and don't need to marry quickly. Sometimes, when you try hard to find, it won't come to you, but when you give up, it may come to you. Nobody can say.
Just convince your parents that you are trying your best but it is not as easy as they say. Who don't want to get married quickly? Marriage is arrange by fate and you have to surrender to fate. Just do the best you can and let nature take it's course. Take care.
- Reply samanthe
- Thanks for writing this long comment for me. What i know nowdays not everyone is willing to spend so much time on other's affair.
sunnyv: I remember my mother once told me that unhappy days are more than happy days in our life. There are more failures than success. We are always burdened ...
For life, if you are sure the things you insist on are right things, you will hold on without hesitation. but if you are not sure about it, you will feel confused. all of us can't forecast our future, the only thing i can do now, do the thing i think it's right.
thanks again
