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I really hope that you can stop compelling me to do anything in the name of love.
This is a modern society, could you give me some freedom to let me choose the life i want ? if i don't want to be in a relationship, please don't let me attend the appiontment with a stranger. i'm a adult, please don't keep me informed that it's time to study……it's time to get married……it's time to have a bady……I'm totally fed up with it.
I don't want to waste my time on such stupied thing. you are not my parents, stop it.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Relax dear. Indeed it is very annoying when over anxious parents try to arrange blind dates for matching. I would be pulling my hair in anger if I was you. As you said this is a modern society and marriage is supposed to be free, suitable and willing.
However, you must understand that as a daughter, you also have the duty to relieve your parents of their worries and concern. Try to say things to assure them that you know that marriage is important and time for marriage is limited. They are worried that you may pass your best marriage and child bearing years. Let them know that you understand this clearly and would do everything you can to take care of this. You may have told them these things before but have some patience to repeat to them again to make them assured.
Tell them that you are also on the lookout for suitable boys and eventually you may know a boy who is suitable and would tell them. When your parents try to arrange blind dates for you, do try to attend it, otherwise they would think you are not serious. Let them know why the person is not suitable and you can find better ones by yourself.
In fact, marriage is not something which we can rush. A lot depends on fate and chances. When the right person comes, he comes into your life automatically. There are lots of girls of your age around you who are still single so you are not alone. Now is the time for you to study and graduate. You would meet more people when you go out to work.
Be peaceful with yourself and let your parents hear the things they want to hear. There is a Chinese saying... ''A good daughter knows how to pacify parents''.
Don't worry. Just do what you should do and everything would be fine. Take care.
- Reply samanthe
- Thanks so much for your kind comment.
sunnyv: Relax dear. Indeed it is very annoying when over anxious parents try to arrange blind dates for matching. I would be pulling my hair in anger if I wa ...
You may not noticed that it's not my parents who push me so much, of course, sometimes they will remind me that it's time to schedule the marriagne if i have a suitble boyfriend. i will comfort them. My parents are not so anxious about my relationship, but my relatives do, which make me annoying.
Anyway, i will do everything to make them feel the sense of security, then them will stop pushing me.
- Reply sunnyv
- I see. You are a good daughter and a good girl. Sometimes, relatives are really annoying. You are capable of handling everything, so just assure your parents and get on with your life.
samanthe: Thanks so much for your kind comment.
You may not noticed that it's not my parents who push me so much, of course, sometimes they will remind me that ...
- Reply teadrinking
- You has the experience that most of us have encountered too. Just be yourself. That is enough. Everybody is different and everything differs from each other. So we just can not make the judgement on others. Especially the relation of seeing someone and even the marriage, we just can not say a lot about that. Because we are on the way that nobody else can replace our decision and destination.
- Reply samanthe
- I see. The reason why they keep pushing us as they think we can't take well care of ourselves currently, if we can present enough secuirty to them, everything will be resolved.
Tange: those process we must face to , we could not avoid it ....
Actually, i should not complain here, i should blame myself. its myself who messed things up.
- Reply samanthe
- I argee with you, thanks for your comment.
teadrinking: You has the experience that most of us have encountered too. Just be yourself. That is enough. Everybody is different and everything differs from each ...
- Reply samanthe
sunnyv: I see. You are a good daughter and a good girl. Sometimes, relatives are really annoying. You are capable of handling everything, so just assure your ...
thank you
- Reply Tange
- those complaination make you feel better ,? if so , i think the complaining is works ... keep silent is not the good way to release your pressure . haha
samanthe: I see. The reason why they keep pushing us as they think we can't take well care of ourselves currently, if we can present enough secuirty to them, ev ...
