Five Red Flags in Dating

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Donna Barnes, a life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City talked about the five biggest red flags with dating.

According to her survey, the hugest red flag is if he's controlling or she's controlling, they don't give their partner an opinion and they've got to have control of every situation.

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. This is about you and them; it has nothing to with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their ex, it means they're probably not over them yet, and, you know or if they're being nasty about them, it's not a good thing either. So don't talk about your exes on relationship.

The next red flag is if they're negative. If everything they say is a complaint, this person is lousy. Negative people are not too good to keep a relationship with.

And if they want to pull you into everything that they're doing, they're probably codependent. It’s not a good sign, that is to say, they’re moving too fast. If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's a red flag, for there should be a slow pace to relationship.

Additionally, if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they're not remembering things you say, if they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.