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We enjoy many convenient things to live in the big city. Shopping, transfortation, different-styles of cuisine, entertainment, more easy to close to the popular-trend.
But I have to admit that my heart is more like a desert, which both are lack of nurture. Indifferent relationship, irritable heart, not clear life-pursuing, lack of motivation etc. Life sucks sometimes.
What a terrible life. Stay up late but don't know what have done or what should do, wake up unwillingly, catch up the subway, work and finished work, take subway again and go back to the rent place.
What to live the whole life? Like that?
Someday someone say " you not fit for this position " , then recurrence with the words " yes I have to retire "
I hope there is another option to live
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- Reply morlly
- When we will move to a city,we will prepare many things ,including a good mood and meet a lonely life.Because living in a city, people alway close the door to live own life and seldom would like talk something with neighbor.Indifferent relationship other than gentle relationship appeared in rural life is a kind of usual phenoemenon.we have to accept it.
- Reply jaylinxuxun
- yes, if people live in hometown. there are family members to talk at least, but , for people who work and live in the immigrant city, There are less chance to talk too.
morlly: When we will move to a city,we will prepare many things ,including a good mood and meet a lonely life.Because living in a city, people alway close th ...
- Reply sunnyv
- Your situation is just like you are locked up in a fancy modern prison. You can see all the good things, feel them but may be can't own them. You try to succeed in the confines of this prison. You won't die in this prison but you are held captive here. You try your best to look far and wide but the prison walls are too high for you to escape. You are pushed back in each time you try to escape. Your body and bones are tired and your mind is frustrated. You won't give up because you know you can do better than now. So what to do? Is that the kind of life you have to live forever? Is there not a an opening where you can escape and taste a world where you can do the things you wish?
Life is unfair to you. You have ambition and know that you can live much better than now. Why is it that others who have less abilities are living better than you. Whose fault is it? Is it your fault? Have you done something wrong to end up like this? Certainly not, you deserve a much more meaningful life, but it is the surroundings that is keeping you down. It is so hard to break free.
You know very well, that living here, your progress and advancement would be restricted or limited. You can't go far. If you want to be successful and contented, you would have to break through all these barriers and jump out of this tormenting life. If this city can't give you a reasonable chance, then you would surely have to look elsewhere. Consider working in other countries. I know emigrating is easy to say but hard to achieve but I can tell you that it is not as hard as you imagine. You have the required basic qualifications and proper background. There are countries which would take you. There may be risks but without taking some risks and adventure, nothing much would happen. You don't have heavy family responsibilities so you can be brave enough to try something worthwhile. Find a chance to think things over and open the way to a new and better life elsewhere while you are still young and capable.
There is no need to feel depressed because you are not alone in these depressive situations. I have been in much worse and situations so I know how you feel. Face all those things bravely and fight on. We stand by you. Take care.
- Reply teadrinking
- Hello. I can totally understand what you meet right now. Though the modern city life goes as what it seems convenient for us, while we lake of the channel to communicate with people in the open heart and find it hard to get well with life since the fast pace.
All of those you mentioned are most the same I met before. So on weekends I just go back to countryside to calm down for a while. We might do not have better alternative choice right now, but I do think that we might have ways to reduce some of pressure from life.
Yes, to be positive is something like a challengeable job. But we can do it well by arranging it. Usually I write down things I am about to do. Otherwise, it is easily going to be lost in the piles of work and countless of assignments from work.
Wish you are well. Have a good weekend.
