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My husband is a busy man,we have been married for about four years,but we never had a trip what I desire.When I was pregnant and gave birth to babies,he was busy.I was left in his hometown alone.In the period,I always felt very lonely.I cried.;Now we are together.we rent a room,I look after baby,he earns money.He is very busy.We are together,I think it will be fine,but I find that I still in the upset.He has only two days holidays in one month,and most of the time he is always answering the phone.If very busy,there is no holiday,even work overtime everyday.I take care of my kid alone day after day.He is a salesman, it's a common thing that he is on a business trip.He is busy,we always have no words to each other.After he back home,he lying on the bed,holding his phone, not much words.I think he is tired.It's a way I comfort myself.Recently,came new neighbors,a young couple.At the beginning.I consider they have no kid.One day,the man took their kid here,a little girl,younger than my daughter.We are the same,rent a room,having kid.It's curious that the man has no job all the time.They play with their kid every day.Really,it's an apparent contrast.Tell the truth,since they came here,I am affected,I think you understand.My husband says:"Don't waste your time when you are young."Yeah,it's right.But I hope you can make time to accompany with me and our daughter,talking with me much more.
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- Reply sunnyv
- To have a hardworking and responsible husband is the dream of most wives. You have got a husband who works hard to support the family. You don't have to leave your child for care by relatives because your husband earn enough.
As a wife you also wish to have your husband showing care and love for you and live a more colorful and happy married life. It is not too much to expect for a short holiday trip once in a while. You should let him know in a soft way that it would be memorable if the family could go on a trip or short holiday.
However, married life is not so ideal and perfect. You really think your husband don't want to go on a relaxing holiday? His job just won't let him do it. There are priorities which include the husband providing for the family needs and the wife keeping the family running smoothly and healthily. Both doing their own duty and contributing to the family. Isn't that a good feeling?
Do you know that sales work is very tiring and requires a lot of attention and follow up work. Sales people cannot go on holidays as you would lose your customers to others when you are away. He must be tired and exhausted at the end of the day. His consolation is to go home to see his lovely child and wife. Every man loves a understanding and caring wife. He needs to rest after such a tiring day. How would you like to change places with him. You be the sales and he take it easy at home. Will you not tired when you reach home.
All a hardworking man needs is to go home to a caring and loving wife. Men are easy to please. All you have to do is to welcome him home, tell him that you know his work is not easy and you feel sorry for him
having to work so hard and tell him you appreciate his hard work and support for the family and he is your hero. Give him a shoulder msssage if he likes it. Talk to him softly and give him the drinks or food he likes. Let him feel relaxed beside you. Soon he would have much to talk to you and happy to be beside you.
You have a good and happy family, so be content with what you have an try your best to keep the family together happily. Hope all your dreams come true and both you and your husband have
good times in the days ahead.
- Reply Yummy525
- It's a long reply ， very good suggestions .Thank you very much.
sunnyv: To have a hardworking and responsible husband is the dream of most wives. You have got a husband who works hard to support the family. You don't have ...
- Reply lovingfun
- He is very busy, but I do think that he will have a free time. You have to talk with him, what you think, and I guess that you may find a good to settle down.
Life itself isn't very easy, but besides life, we also have lots of things to do, so our attitude may lead to different way of living. How to choose, only yourself can get a good answer.
- Reply Yummy525
- Really?I hope so.According to this,I should be happy everyday.
Tange: hehe , many people devoted their family-time to earn money for the one he loved .....
- Reply Yummy525
- Really?I hope so.According to this,I should be happy everyday.
Tange: hehe , many people devoted their family-time to earn money for the one he loved .....
- Reply Yummy525
- Really?I hope so.According to this,I should be happy everyday.
Tange: hehe , many people devoted their family-time to earn money for the one he loved .....
- Reply Yummy525
- He is a good person,but I don't like his busy.In our life,it's not a big problem,maybe the primary problem is my negative attitude.Now,I understand.Cherish!
lovingfun: He is very busy, but I do think that he will have a free time. You have to talk with him, what you think, and I guess that you may find a good to set ...
- Reply cestlavie
- after seeing your words, it's hard to express my feeling on this, since i am single and have no idea what marriage lift would be, expecially between couples, i didnt expreicnecd such life, so i supposed that i dont have the right to say much. but you 2 needs communication.
- Reply Yummy525
- Marriage life is not that as beautiful as you though before.Single is the real freedom.
cestlavie: after seeing your words, it's hard to express my feeling on this, since i am single and have no idea what marriage lift would be, expecially between c ...
- Reply Yummy525
- Marriage life is not that as beautiful as you though before.Single is the real freedom.
cestlavie: after seeing your words, it's hard to express my feeling on this, since i am single and have no idea what marriage lift would be, expecially between c ...
- Reply blueberry2010
- you are not easy, taking care of your kid alone, so less time to be with your husband....,i can understand your sorrow mind. Because i have gone through this kind of life before
- Reply cestlavie
- i really have no idea weather Marrige life is good or not, i still have not that chance to try.
Yummy525: Marriage life is not that as beautiful as you though before.Single is the real freedom.
But my single life now, is that all my friends, sisters, parents, relatives want me to marry soon, they keep asking every time they meet me. you could image that situation.
- Reply Yummy525
- Marrage life,all of your life about your family,especially your children.you always feel exhausted.if your partner didn't understand you,it would let you crazy.if you want to step into the marriage life,you must find a good man who really care you,understand you.
cestlavie: i really have no idea weather Marrige life is good or not, i still have not that chance to try.
But my single life now, is that all my friends, sister ...
- Reply Yummy525
- Marrage life,all of your life about your family,especially your children.you always feel exhausted.if your partner didn't understand you,it would let you crazy.if you want to step into the marriage life,you must find a good man who really care you,understand you.
cestlavie: i really have no idea weather Marrige life is good or not, i still have not that chance to try.
But my single life now, is that all my friends, sister ...
- Reply Yummy525
- As a mother ,it's really tough to all of us.
blueberry2010: you are not easy, taking care of your kid alone, so less time to be with your husband....,i can understand your sorrow mind. Because i have gone throu ...
- Reply cestlavie
- You're quite right, i totally understand what you said, because friends around me, most of them are married, and i can see clearly what marriage life they have, with their husband. some of them are happy, coz they value each other so much. but some dont, seems they don't have muture topic, they don't know how to communicate, and quarrel a lot. This makes me realize that how important it's to choose the right guy .
Yummy525: Marrage life,all of your life about your family,especially your children.you always feel exhausted.if your partner didn't understand you,it would let ...
- Reply teadrinking
- Your husband has to work hard to support the whole family. Now you two have daughter. It burdens much harder for him. I can imagine that kind of scene. When I am off work, I also choose stay for a while to calm down. So I totally understand his lying on bed.
Life is beautiful with kinds of things. People we meet, things we encounter. Like the couple you mentioned live nearby, they also have kid. That is the life. Though you do not see how much hard work that man does, even find him is not so busy. It is fine. Everyone has his own choice to life.
As the wife you need to take care of kid and also have to support your husband who works hard. You have such a normal feeling in the hope of cares from him. If comfortable words come to you from him, that would be much happier. Maybe he is kind of tired.
To support a family is tough. Modern society is full of competition. So many people migrating into cities to work. And at present, the whole market is not that booming since the weak economy pushes every industry to the verge of upgrade.
Sure, you two can communicate more gradually to sustain your relationship. Keep patience.
