Recognition, is hard to describe, not to mention it sometimes tangles with emotion.

    Go figure, we judge something more or less with emotion, we would much easily tolerate some bad things when it comes from friendly motive or a friendly person you get along with.

    Or, you keep picking loopholes in your beloved one only as you can`t keep calm.

    The emotion block your way of right seeing the whole thing is one thing. The other is we focus too much on self-oriented instead of third part who try to understand stands, stances of each other. Sometimes self-oriented keeps us always in the box.

    So, keep your recognition more sophisticated and keep yourself dumb.