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Ten things making us unhappy!
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In order to be happy, we must know that there are ten things in our life that we cannot do anything to help it.
After learning about them, I think, we will think positively and lighten up a little bit and also take it easy to live a happy life. They are as follows,
1. people leaving you alone and away from you,
2. the lapse of time,
3. a wall that collapses to you,
4. no choice of origin,
5. inexplicable loneliness without reason,
6. hopeless and incurable like or love,
7. helpless and unavoidable forgetting,
8. the eternal past,
9. others' deriding,
10. inevitable death.
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- Reply Rhythm
- Yeah,the ten things does make us unhappy and maybe we will feel better after we know it more from your summary.
- Reply wolf13
- In my opinion,all unhappiness derives from too much attention we pay to the outside surroundings and how others view us,consequently neglecting the serene and real needs of our souls.
- Reply vecent
- from your summary i draw a conculsion that people shouldnot cry for the spilled milk in order to be a happy man.
- Reply lolitushu
- Ok, I have to admit that the title reminds me of a drama. BTW, just forget the unhappy things and have fun.
- Reply touringchina
- there isno way that you can run away from the above listed unpleasant things from happening to you.
- Reply littlegrass
- Rhythm: Yeah,the ten things does make us unhappy and maybe we will feel better after we know it more from your summary.Ignore them, I believe, we will be feeling much better.
- Reply littlegrass
- wolf13: In my opinion,all unhappiness derives from too much attention we pay to the outside surroundings and how others view us,consequently neglecting the seYou bet, and you are so profound and philosophical, the real happiness derives from deep inside not board outside.
- Reply littlegrass
- Ben-Niu: thanks for sharing.I'm very grateful if they are a little bit helpful to you, and you are welcome.
- Reply littlegrass
- vecent: from your summary i draw a conculsion that people shouldnot cry for the spilled milk in order to be a happy man.You bet. As the saying goes, play one's guitar to an ox. Although an ox does make no sense, we can enjoy ourselves by playing the guitar.
- Reply littlegrass
- Alinna: Are you a Buddhist?No, but I like maitreya very much, especially his smile. I think, it does not matter, but what matters is that we are always feeling much better and happier.
- Reply littlegrass
- lolitushu: Ok, I have to admit that the title reminds me of a drama. BTW, just forget the unhappy things and have fun.You've got the point there. Have fun everyday.
- Reply littlegrass
- touringchina: there isno way that you can run away from the above listed unpleasant things from happening to you.Anyhow, they will happen which are independent of our will and mind, so that we cannot change it, but what we can change is that we can view them differently.
- Reply 2010jj
- for me, sometimes i am not happy because of myself. That is to say, don't learn to be confident when facing it.
- Reply littlegrass
- 2010jj: for me, sometimes i am not happy because of myself. That is to say, don't learn to be confident when facing it.Ｙｏｕ ａｒｅ ｓｏ ｓｐｅｃａｉｌ, ａｎｄ Ｉ'ｍ ａｄｍｉｒｉｎｇ ｙｏｕ.
- Reply littlegrass
- loong: counting bad weather as the one, bad weather means depressed mood.So what we can do is change our mood just because we cannot change the weather.
