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Every relationship can give us some enlightenment. My first love started when I was in high school and lasted for 5 years, although it ended up with a sad ending but it teach me a lot of lessons.
I learn that in a relationship two persons need to give each other some personal space, I always want to own all the pleasure anger sorrow and joy of the beloved one. but I found that the more I care about the worse things will became. and I have lost myself in the last. so the second lesson I learn is that in a relationship two persons need to keep their own personality. the most terrible and dangerous thing is that you lost and give up yourself which result in the situation that you can't be yourself. the most ideal and healthy state of a relationship is that two lovers all keep their own personality in the process of adjusting to each other. only when you learn to love yourself can you love others. own the ability of forgiveness and the ability of loving others is also very important. take the TV serial 'The Ode to Joy' for example, I don't think that Qi Dian has the ability of loving others. because he always remind Andy that she may inherit her mother's illness in his speech. so in a relationship own the ability of speaking skill is very important. HAHA, it seems that I have missed the point, so many words to say but I need to leave some words for my next blog.
yeah， I am a lazy girl.Post comment Comment (8 replies)
- Reply Huaxia
- Have you ever heard that two people who love each other always change themselves for each other?
- Reply lovingfun
- Love is hard to describe, and can easily experience in real life. As Tange said:"Enjoy the love when you are young."
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- While love is not easy, it could teach us much.
- Reply 2amlittle
- this is the so called two lovers who love each others are always willing to put up with the beloved ones and adjust to the beloved one.
Huaxia: Have you ever heard that two people who love each other always change themselves for each other?
- Reply 2amlittle
- I think love is a matter which we can enjoy through out our life time. only when you have love in mind can your life be full of love, of course the love I said here not only mean the love between two lovers but also the love between friends and family members and love for all the things in the world.
Tange:
enjoy the love when you young
- Reply 2amlittle
- I think love is a matter which we can enjoy through out our life time. only when you have love in mind can your life be full of love, of course the love I said here not only mean the love between two lovers but also the love between friends and family members and love for all the things in the world.
lovingfun: Love is hard to describe, and can easily experience in real life. As Tange said:"Enjoy the love when you are young."
