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Research on jealousy and its influence factors in college students

Hot 31284 views. 2013-5-31 17:19 | its, physical, college, factors

Envy is a widespread psychological phenomenon in the social crowd which tends to have negative effects on talent development, interpersonal relationships, physical and mental health of its owners. College students, as a special group in the social, also suffer from jealousy. Compared with senior school, things have changed dramatically in every aspect of their lives. College students have experienced the academic success and they also have a strong will to create new lives and good expectations for the future. However, they still have to face fierce competition in all aspects of life, then some succeeded and yet some failed which would inevitably lead to a large number of people have great psychological gap, if improperly handled, it could make students produce jealousy then eventually hurt themselves and the society.

   This study begins from the definition and main sources of jealousy, mainly concerns about a special social group——college students. Jealousy among college students embody in the requirements, aspirant and talent development, physiological and family conditions, even in the interpersonal interaction, equality and love. Reasons of jealousy include not only the objective reality gap, but also the vanity and self cognitive biases. Physical and mental harm is the usual risk of jealousy. Long-term existence of jealousy can easily cause low spirit in college students. It does not only hinder the talents growth, harmony of interpersonal relationship and collective solidarity, but also produce serious harm to society and may even lead to social crime. In order to avoid the serious consequences of jealousy in college student, the whole society should take some actions like guiding the college students to find out the positive value of jealousy emotions and turn it into power for progress, making college students realize the strengths of their own, admitting the shortcomings and then learning from others and being positive in the interpersonal communication. Besides, Helping students to form diversified value system and encouraging them to learn how to share resource with others are also constructive measures to transform jealousy from a negative emotion to a positive one.

    Envy is a normal kind of attitude and mood in the process of human communication. The positive side of jealousy can make college students figure out others' strengths and their own shortcomings then stimulates them to surpass others by making improvement .While the negative side of jealousy will bring damage to good relationships, if left unchecked, will seriously affect the physical and mental health of college students. Therefore, analyzing the development process of jealousy and advancing corresponding counseling strategies is of vital significance for college students to keep healthy during their growth and cultivate qualified talents for socialist modernization construction.

Post comment Comment (5 replies)

Reply Haiena 2013-5-31 21:47
Everybody have jealousy and envy since birth. Jealousy makes us improve and do better than others, but the jealousy must not turn into harming others.

We often ask ourselves. Why other friends boyfriends and husband is always better than my own? Why my friends have so many contacts on their QQ but I have so few? When we go to restaurants to eat, why is it that we always feel other people's choices on their dishes is better than my own choice? We wish we have chosen the same food too. Why the things our friends got is always better than mine? We are always jealous of the things other people have. Sometimes we hate our friends because of these reasons. We must learn how to control ourselves and be honest to ourselves. Jealousy can turn into motivation or can turn into destruction of relationships.
Reply yaping 2013-6-1 10:31
Haiena: Everybody have jealousy and envy since birth. Jealousy makes us improve and do better than others, but the jealousy must not turn into harming others. ...
Yep, envy is a normal kind of attitude and mood in the process of human communication.but we must control it properly.
Reply lovingfun 2013-6-1 14:17
Envy or jealousy don't always  bring us negtive sectors. It depends. But we must deal with it wisely, or it will do some damage to its owner and related circus.
   Jealousy can be a motivation, sometimes.
All in all, it is a comlicated spirit status, it need us to care more.
Reply yaping 2013-6-2 16:31
lovingfun: Envy or jealousy don't always  bring us negtive sectors. It depends. But we must deal with it wisely, or it will do some damage to its owner and relat ...
Yeah!~get ur words!
Reply caomingcsdn 2013-6-3 09:46
your english proficiency  is get better an better,
like you !

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