It seems that it was naturaly everybody want to be a big guy, while there are so few people who are really big as they are as in the eyes of others. Though they can't be, they thought they should be without any break and always like to show it, if they got the chance. The problem lies not in the argument of standard of "Big", it is, how we treat it, before we are big?
I have ever read a story, which talked about a remote city. For it was such a far place, when the newspaper arrived it have been three day later, thus, if we made the decision three days later, how different the world would be. There must be fewer tragedy, more happiness. We won't regret for the pity which resulting from our impulse, some of them were uncompensatable. Though it may not be appropriate to cite it here to prove the words I want to say, it help me to explain why we should keep calm and mouth shuted when we thought we are big, or VIP。
No, actually it was not. As an old Chinese saying, "There always are mountains higher and people stronger.", with which we are so familar, while we often forget it.