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an incident

1331 views. 2013-1-18 17:54

It was a normal evening during my vacation, except a spontaneous impulse to clean our apartment. My wife would clean the floor with bloom, I, moping with mop in the following. living room first, dinning room the next, bedrooms the last. The work was started and going on smoothly, while my wife and I were chatting various topics of both importance and minors, both were in pleasant mood and the work continued to the bedrooms. An abrupt and loud cry pierce the space of our apartment, it came from my daughter who was playing in the living room. My wife, startled, threw away the tool, rushing to the place of occurrence, all were accomplished within a fraction of second while dumb me was staying right at the spot with mop in hand. A yell from my wife indicated the seriousness of the situation, I rushed to the scene, daughter in the arm of my wife, a full cup of tea fell on my Macbook on my desk, empty and dripping, I lifted my poor laptop, water came out from every hole of it, a sudden horror and anger seized me, my proud precious laptop which was newly bought, costing me a fortune, now was drowned with water and dead, I could lose all the files and the device itself. My wife was cuddling and checking if there was any damage to the hand of our daughter. I shouted to my wife to bring the hair blower while cursing and blaming. My daughter ceased cry and her little face was eloquent of fear and concern. All the following of the night, I were busy in draining and blowing of the poor device, never gave a thought that the hot water from the fallen cup might do some damage to my daughter, who should be ever and ever more precious to me than a laptop under usual circumstance.

 

I recalled this incident with qualms of conscience, with all the talk of love and devotion, a small incidence revealed to the contrary. In contrast, my wife’s response proved her total devotion and pure conscience. Was the difference in reaction to the incidence between me and my wife the universal one as between mother and father, or is it just an isolated case which indicated the nasty side of my subconscious mind?  Still I am hopeful that I would react differently to a situation of similar nature in the future.

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Reply hirondelle 2013-1-18 19:50
It is not hard to understand your reaction. After all, women have endured 10-month labor in order to give birth to a child----more labor, more love.
Reply loly90 2013-1-18 21:31
En, it's normal that father's love has some subtle difference with mother's love. How about you two go to show your care to your daughter, but none of you care about the mistake made by your dear daughter and make up the fault? What if your daughter was doing something wrong to your pen instead of your laptop? Just think about it, once you know your love for your daughter, that's enough.
Reply 沧海一粟 2013-1-19 12:57
Very sorry for what happened to your family. You wife handled the situation very well -- making sure your daughter wasn't hurt and was well consoled ...
Your reaction to the incident does not necessarily mean that you don't care about your daughter or you are a nasty person as you wonder. you might be just  not sensitive enough to your wife and your daughter's needs at that moment ... Anyway, I can feel your contrition for your reaction to the incident, and I think it may help you to feel better if you discuss it to you wife.
Take care.
Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2013-1-19 15:19
Compared with your daughter, I think the laptop is not so precious,  Or just nothing, though it cost you a sum of money. Wish your dear daughter could be careful later.
Reply Richardren 2013-1-20 01:51
hirondelle: It is not hard to understand your reaction. After all, women have endured 10-month labor in order to give birth to a child----more labor, more love.
i guess the biological connection between mother and child is intrinsically irreplacable, when combined with unselfish mother love, it will become a force so strong that is insurmountable. i can regard it only with awe and respect.
Reply Richardren 2013-1-20 02:00
loly90: En, it's normal that father's love has some subtle difference with mother's love. How about you two go to show your care to your daughter, but none of
thanks for stand up for father's love, hehe. still the instant response to a situation like this proves something that we unwilling to admit. you see the distinction between me and my wife. as a father, i may have my own strength, but in compare to motherly love to child, it is indeed beyond my reach.
Reply Richardren 2013-1-20 02:07
沧海一粟: Very sorry for what happened to your family. You wife handled the situation very well -- making sure your daughter wasn't hurt and was well consoled .
i never discuss this matter with my wife, i guess my masculine ego has been working against it. the contrition is strong indeed, which prompted me to reflect deeper and i think this might be helpful to know better about myself. maybe my love to our daughter could be stronger in other respect, i hope.
Reply Richardren 2013-1-20 02:14
IMNONARCISSUS: Compared with your daughter, I think the laptop is not so precious,  Or just nothing, though it cost you a sum of money. Wish your dear daughter could
yes, laptop is nothing indeed, that is why my conscience has been suffering. And it is always the parents to blame for an incident like, taking precaution and teaching to little kids should always be the responsibillity of the parents.
Reply loly90 2013-1-20 22:34
Richardren: thanks for stand up for father's love, hehe. still the instant response to a situation like this proves something that we unwilling to admit. you see
Hmm, it's ture. Just think of our father and mother, we can know that.
Reply 沧海一粟 2013-1-21 23:30
Admitting your blemish is neither a indication of your weakness, nor a threat to your masculinity. It is a demonstration of your humility, which is an good and admirable quality. I also think an oversized ego is an impediment in any relationship.
Please exuse me if I am being too blunt here.
Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2013-1-22 10:47
Richardren: yes, laptop is nothing indeed, that is why my conscience has been suffering. And it is always the parents to blame for an incident like, taking precau

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