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Recently, i have been thinking about my job at day and night time even when sleeping. it's already third time that i woke up during my sleeping since of being anxious about my resigning. it sounds like pretty weird ! yep I'm an adult with 30 years old ! that's truly me. Also, i have realized this is bad shortcoming and i have ever tried to fix it but i failed to do it. honestly speaking, i'm not an optimist since i was a kid. i used to worry about lots of things that could make me puzzled.such as exam. in addition, i'm not good at making decision especially for some "big and important" things. e.g. how to choose one company between these two offers i got which almost push me over the edge.
Meanwhile, i'm bad at dealing with people particularly with my supervisor or boss. i have to admit it's sort of serious weakness for my occupation career. during these days,i was thinking to make a form to record the relationship with my friends and colleague. i hope it will be useful to improve my skills to deal with people.
Also,i'm expecting to get some suggestion to improve myself so any kind of advice is welcomed.
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- Reply teadrinking
- We got confused and feel awful that we have to deal with many things. This kind of situation happens to almost everyone. The only difference is that those who are good at dealing things and others are not. The former is usually with good attitude since they know there is no alternative way to avoid it. When we got stuck we have to go over it. Because nobody else can help us all the time. We have to plough through it.
By making decisions, it is a real test to see if we can be cool to cope with what we are about to do. We are easy to be lost that is usually because we do not know too much of what we really want. If we have already made the mind and well mastered what exactly we want, it won't be that hard to choose the way ahead of us.
Easier said than done. The only can we do is to experience. And then we conclude what we learn which becomes the treasure helps us to pave the way moving forward.
After years of social life. now I realise everything should be done in person. I do not rely on anybody else. Since I know they really cannot help me out. Finally, I am the only one who can solve problems.
By experiencing, we become more decisive.
- Reply kuin
- Salary is same important with career development,if you think current job,the salary has no obvious promotion or job title,and the next ones can provide these for you ,then you can almost decide to resign.
Of course,resigning is tough because facing new job,the comfort and stability of current job will gone.
New beginning will bring with challenges.
I think you should listen more to your friends or colleagues,they know more about your job or industry,they can give you better advices.
Find some way to help you make decisions then you will not so anxious.
Hope you good!
- Reply wangjide01
- There are more challenge in work than the life in university. Something is must be faced and learned like make deciaion,communication, coordination with colleague.Go ahead, you'll be better. the character is different for each people. Maybe there a position is more suitable for your personality
- Reply kyle2012
- Yep. I agree with you that we ought to learn how to make a decision by ourself. Also, I believe we will be decisive as the time goes by.
teadrinking: We got confused and feel awful that we have to deal with many things. This kind of situation happens to almost everyone. The only difference is that t ...
- Reply kyle2012
- yep, it's reasonable. Here is the situation: one of the offer is from a small company with high wage and high title and the other comes from a very famous company with a little bit low salary in another province(Anhui) that is far away from my current place. So it makes me confused. in addition, I have lived in this city for 7 years since I start to work. So if I choose the famous corporation, I have to live in a brand environment with new people--I haven't any friends in that place.
kuin: Salary is same important with career development,if you think current job,the salary has no obvious promotion or job title,and the next ones can provi ...
Also, I have queried many friends. some of them told me I should go to Anhui and some advise me to go the other firm which makes me hesitated for a long while.
At last, thank you for your advice.
- Reply kyle2012
- yep, it goes without saying. society is more complicated than school. there is a huge difference between university and corporation. as we all know that we aim to make money by work. By contrast, you spend money to learn knowledge.
wangjide01: There are more challenge in work than the life in university. Something is must be faced and learned like make deciaion,communication, coordination wi ...
Thank you for your comment.
- Reply moli
- Good relationship does help you improve yourself better in a new company. As far as I am concerned, being yourself, do your best to do your job, and be kind to anyone.
