Should i be totally obedient to my parents?

小莫

If you really need to choose between your parents and your boyfriend, who will you choose? If you really believe the love between you and your boyfriend, what are you waiting for? Can you ask your relatives to persuade your parents? Waiting for your good news...

hirondelle

You are approaching 30, aren't you? You think it worth your precious youth to wait for a boy for such a long time against your parents' will? You know what, you may risk your own life happiness! I wonder whether there is another man admiring you in the school where you teach. If there has been one who was interested in you, did you ever think about accepting a new chance of love? If you persist in following him, there can only be two consequence. One is to marry him---we all hope it!----Another is that you finally seperate, and you are left at an age that may have negtive effect upon your next chance of love---forgive me to be frank, I just speak the truth. You have to think it over carefully. Wish you a happy end!

youthy

hirondelle: You are approaching 30, aren't you? You think it worth your precious youth to wait for a boy for such a long time against your parents' will? You know

Dear Hirondelle,
   Thanks for your frankness! i like to be friends with persons like you. To tell you the truth, i don't want to stay at where i'm teaching. That's why i have refused all the admirers here. But really i don't have enough time and energy being risk wasting my precious time. Time can be cure for everything and maybe i need time to hocus myself and to forget the unpleasant experience with parents.

youthy

小莫: If you really need to choose between your parents and your boyfriend, who will you choose? If you really believe the love between you and your boyfrie

I've asked me several times the first two questions raised. For the first question, i really don't know the answer--that's because both of the two pose a vital significance in my life.  As to the second, i believe in the love between us, but there're so many other complicated factors involved that i really can't guarantee the love. i'm really in fixed emotions... As for the last question, my parents are extremely obstinate, they only trust on their own judgment! Ah, i feel pressed! Let it be. At last, thanks a lot for your attention.

hirondelle

youthy: Dear Hirondelle,
   Thanks for your frankness! i like to be friends with persons like you. To tell you the truth, i don't want to stay at where i'm te

Good luck to you! One day you marry, don't forget to tell all of us!

youthy

ABSOLUTELY!