whether woman should sacrifice for their family

danielrayslee

Don't use the word "sacrifice", which might be too depressing and kinda laying some pressures on the other half you are living with. As far as I am concerned, a Chinese man always like to share the rest of his life with someone caring about his home, his child(children) and himself. Just think how sweet it is to be back home when the wife brings along a bowl of hot soup to him, and the time spent in which the female acts as a girly girl.
Well, please accept my apologies if I might offend you. Though this world is internationalized and still will be, and more and more cultures are following the American tide, in which the female take the other half of the sky,but not in China, at least not now.
I think,  as one Chinese writer once put it, "we, men, always like to live in an American mantion, eat the Chinese food, and marry a Japanese girl.
You know what I mean? In the textbooks it is always displaying that girls or women can have what they want in life, but actually not in reality, in reality, a man does not wanna marry a "strong woman."
One famous American female reporter once sighed," A man becomes successful cos he is displaying all that of a man, while a woman becomes successful for she has lost all that of a woman."
Think about it, will a man willingly marry a woman who is successful but has lost her feminie character?
Hope my answer can be of help to you.