how do you forget something/someone really improtant but makes you unhappy?

monkeylinstar

a lot of things in our life are helpless. is there any efficient and effective ways for us to solve it? you know, to forget is really difficult even long period of time passed.

monkeylinstar

小莫: If my only choice is to forget, I will forget it with all my effort. Because it does no good to me if I keep on regretting, or pitying. But memory wil

yes.memory is a good thing and whereas we must forget some of it. thanks for your care.

monkeylinstar

chubbykitten: if it is so hard to forget, it must be something quiet importan. maybe you should not push yourself to wipe it away completely from your hear. Just le

making myself busy is a good way and i'll try it!

monkeylinstar

lover5200: yes,I can't be impossible to forget that guy immediately but you can find something and someone that make you happy,then you can forget them unconscio

yes, i have arleady found one who always makes me happy. and  i'll maiantain this happiness.

monkeylinstar

LunaDEJ: By diverting my attention from those people and indulge myself in other things which i am keen on...
Or trying my best to uglify them...(IT SEE

i think it's good way. sometimes we can't clearly judge a person until something happened. so that we know the dark side.

monkeylinstar

Sophia璞: I won't demand myself to forget him.If he once important to me,he will leave in my mind forever.However, I will clear tell myself that we are just fri

yes, i tried your ways, but i think i need the help of time and something new in my life.  I have some extreme views, so i decided not to keep in touch with him.

monkeylinstar

Sophia璞: No matter how you choose ,I will support you. I just hope you could have a new life and smile to face your life.my friend.

yes~ i can do it! but new problems are still coming. so, it's not a easy life and also it's not easy to live.

monkeylinstar

humour_boy: As far as i am concerned,I think it is not necessary to forget something purposely for we probably will not bring them to mind when we are engaging in

yes, i'm better now. really!

monkeylinstar

humour_boy: As far as i am concerned,I think it is not necessary to forget something purposely for we probably will not bring them to mind when we are engaging in

i'll take your advice. i'm forgetting it now and i know if  i choose to be happy and i will be happy.