To find a real friend

sunnyv

Yes, it is indeed hard to find a friend who can talk frankly heart to heart without condition, competition or selfishness. They want to know all about you but they are distrustful in letting you know what is in their heart. I wonder why can't people talk and discuss personal problems in depth. Both will benefit because things seen from a different angle can have different result. There is a chinese saying, "the bystanders see things more clear" Looking back, I found I benefitted a lot from support from friends, but nowadays the friends are only interested in what you can offer to them. It is indeed pitiful and if it goes on like this people would be driven to the extreme and can't enjoy normal happy life. So let us offer a helping hand to others who need it. United we stand, divided we fall.

sunnyv

fairy0612: what you said is exactly correct. Nowadays people all have a selfish thought, if they can benefit from you, they call you friends, once they cannot an

True, that is what I observed too. Glad to know that you have the same experience, so I can say this situation is getting common. Indeed a pity. People are programmed to need others and if this goes on, it will be sad for many.