are you used to keeping your QQ visible or invisible

GXYeats

viggie: everytime when i am on line, i can't help thinking how many people are there with me who don't want to show up, being invisible bestows them the initi

Why?
Suppose in your eyes it's fair to be all online visibly, then those unwilling to start a certain conversation will be forced to say something, at least an apology, or a declination; it's unfair to them.
Therefore it's fair for every one to express their demand by choosing between visibility and invisibility; every one voices his own intention without intruding others' freedom and autonomy.