are you used to keeping your QQ visible or invisible

viggie

GXYeats: invisible. Just to avoid trifling conversation.

everytime when i am on line, i can't help thinking how many people are there with me who don't want to show up, being invisible bestows them the initiative of conversation, that's totally unfair

viggie

GXYeats: Why?
Suppose in your eyes it's fair to be all online visibly, then those unwilling to start a certain conversation will be forced to say something, at

well that sounds reasonable,but i think at least you should let me know whether you are there or not, if i speak to you ,you don't respond, that's no big deal