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Post on 2010-9-14 20:51:36 |View Posts |View in descending order
This person is one of my colleagues. He is an outgoing and funny person who often creates some relax atomsphere and make us laugh. So he is quite popular among us. However, he has two bad habits that i cannot bear. One is that he is a smoker. He is the only person who is smoking in the office. No matter how many times we complain about him, it doesn't make a difference to him. The other is that he often borrow something from me but never remember giving it back to me. When he takes something, he seems to be the owner. If i want to get it back, i have to " borrow" it from him. Especially when he said that he would be sure to give it back to me the next day, when tomorrow is coming, he can not keep his promise, which makes me mad. And he has had my memory stick for several months, most of time he doesn't use it cause he leaves it at home, which makes me crazy.
So when you have such this colleague, how can you  cope with  or get along with him?
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Post on 2010-9-15 21:43:18 |View Posts
Justina8023: If those things were important to me, I would be driven crazy.
However, if you think he is a good guy and worth making friends with, just tell him yo
However i have mentioned this thing for many times, it seems that this way doesn't work. In the eyes of ours, he is always forgetting something and an forgettable person. When he meets me, he says with smiling," don't worry, you'll get it tomorrow."
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Post on 2010-9-15 21:45:07 |View Posts
Eileenzhang: Can borrow something from him and don't return it. Let him try his own poison. That will not work?
Huh, a good way to remind him of returning something. Now we are not at the same office. It is not easy to find him by calling him.
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Post on 2010-9-15 21:47:35 |View Posts
jollity2002: What a terrible thing to have such colleague!
But you can tell him your suggestions for his bad habbits and help him to get rid of them!
Then he will
Not only i but also my other colleagues persuade him to give up somking. He can stand the pressure from ours and do what he likes doing.
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Post on 2010-9-16 17:13:51 |View Posts
jollity2002: What a terrible thing!
Just now I met him by chance on my way hom. He smiled to me as soon as he saw me and told me that he felt so sorry to forget it and promised to return it. I have no choice but to wait.
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Post on 2010-9-17 11:52:54 |View Posts
Ivy_Chen: Maybe just like your words, he is a so forgetable person or he is busy or some other reasons, but do not only remember one's shortage, but also the ma
Thanks for your advice. Something is not very important for me but it is useful for me. However, keeping it for several monthes is not a good habit.
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Post on 2010-9-18 14:28:28 |View Posts
Ivy_Chen: whatever, may you have a good relationship with the people round you
Thank you.
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Post on 2010-9-18 14:29:33 |View Posts
That sounds great!
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Post on 2010-9-26 17:11:05 |View Posts
chaijenna: i will not borrow him anything anymore!
that's right!
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