the blind date once was a quite popular way for someone to find her/his mate in china. in the ancient china, when people was not so free and convinient to communicate with each other. women were quite limited to meet with men, especially with a strange man. those unmarried girl were always locked in their boudoirs at most time so the encountering love rarely happed for them. even more some of them were force to accepted a marriage that is out of their wiils. that is much similar to western countries. but in the current time, blind date is still poplular. despitedly, the society is much opnener and more convenienct to communicate. the limitline between genders has faded day by day. women and men have many opportunities to meet each other at all circumstances. so why there are few loves originating from free mind and choice. where are the stories which are from the daily life.