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Girl's secret weapon for evaluating her man

Hot 51091 views. 2013-6-29 21:34 | yesterday, function, glasses, because, private

I met my old friend Cindy, a psychologist, in a private function yesterday. She is a good looking lady and very good at socializing. After we had a few glasses of wine, she started to talk about her professional topic, how to evaluate a man. Soon after that, she was mobbed quickly by a group of ladies. I was curious what she was going to say and I walked closely to her. To my surprised, she stood up and dragged me into the group and offered a seat beside her. It was so embarrassing because I am a only male in the group to have a lesson from her. 

Cindy said that man's behaviour and temperament are crucial to the success of his career and family, so the first things first you need to test is the behaviour and temperament of a man. This test can be considered as girl's secret weapon to evaluate your boyfriends' or partners' behaviour without knowing by them. The results are almost 100% accuracy.

The test is included two assessments:
First assessment, you watch him how he drives in a busy traffic, does he swear when someone drives slowly or cut him off. Does he do overtakes or across lines aggressively and frequently. 
Second assessment, watch him to play Mahjong with his friend or relatives, especially when involving with some money. How he reacts when someone plays hesitantly. Does he lose his temper when he lost an opportunity to win or lost money.
These testes need to undergo several times in different places. Try to avoid directly involve with those activities, just calm and pretending you don't take any notice of his reactions. After the observations take place for a period of time, you will clearly know what are the behaviour and the temperament of your man.

Hey, girls this is not my ideas. If right, then give me a tick, if wrong, please don't blame me for it, good luck to you!

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply 2010jj 2013-6-29 21:45
I think her advice is very instructive.
Reply 3rdquarter99 2013-6-30 11:56
my questions is:    does the above tests also work for men to evaluate women?      when a person, man or woman, gets stuck in a traffic jam,  he or she would naturally feel bored and anxious, so driving agrresively or beeping or saying rude words to other drivers or taxi is very usual.   at least, I would do it.      another test, when you lose money in Majiang games, you certinaly feel unhappy unless you are very rich and don't give a damn to money.  so I say evaluating men 's personality trait by these is not comprehensive,  the girl might lose a good boy because of that.
Reply sunnyv 2013-6-30 12:44
A confident person should be at ease in any situation, no matter it is embarrassing, explosive, intimate or challenging.

I would say that the best way to observe or discover the personality of a man is to see how he treats other people, especially those who are weaker or under him. How he treats his family and relatives. The things he does when you are not present would also reveal his true mind. It is no use if a man is nice to people and then kicks a poor cat in the street.

These are important facts that we should teach our brothers, sisters or children.
Reply freefu55 2013-6-30 13:01
Hope you write an article about Man's secret weapon for evaluating his girl. how??????
Reply Ausfrank 2013-7-1 14:34
2010jj: I think her advice is very instructive.
Yes, I agree. The reactions commonly show pleople's temperament in those two situations.
Reply Ausfrank 2013-7-1 16:37
sunnyv: A confident person should be at ease in any situation, no matter it is embarrassing, explosive, intimate or challenging.

I would say that the best w ...
I support what you have mentioned about the better way to discover the personality. But I also think that Cindy's idea is made sense to a couple who met each other recently.
Let us assume what will happen when a girl and a boy know each other for just a  short time. Obviously the girl can not get much of the boy's information either from his friends or relatives. Driving and playing Mahjong games are common daily activities, therefore this is the most easist chance to observe boy's reactions.
Reply Ausfrank 2013-7-1 17:01
freefu55: Hope you write an article about Man's secret weapon for evaluating his girl. how??????
Unfortunately I don't have one. Would you like to post a demand for "man's secret weapon" in your Blog and see whether you can collect some ideas from the  Dio members.
Reply Ausfrank 2013-7-1 17:38
3rdquarter99: my questions is:    does the above tests also work for men to evaluate women?      when a person, man or woman, gets stuck in a traffic jam,  he or sh ...
Logically the test does work in both sides. However, in the realities, it is not going to work well when testing a girl. Imagin what will be happened when you and a lady are both in a car, will you tell the lady to drive and you have a rest. If your girlfriend lost some money when playing Mahjong games, who will be most likely to pay?
Reply Tange 2013-8-8 21:08
Ausfrank: Unfortunately I don't have one. Would you like to post a demand for "man's secret weapon" in your Blog and see whether you can collect some  ...
ladies 's heart is hard to be understood , in my view , women is so complicated , why she did so many testing to treat the man who she loved .... that is unfair...
Reply Tange 2013-8-8 21:08
Ausfrank: Unfortunately I don't have one. Would you like to post a demand for "man's secret weapon" in your Blog and see whether you can collect some  ...
ladies 's heart is hard to be understood , in my view , women is so complicated , why she did so many testing to treat the man who she loved .... that is unfair...
Reply Ausfrank 2013-8-10 16:13
Tange: ladies 's heart is hard to be understood , in my view , women is so complicated , why she did so many testing to treat the man who she loved .... that ...
I think this is what women like to play with and we can not do anything about it.

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