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Will you be afraid of being single later on in life?
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Most people agree that being single in their twenties has lots of advantages, because when you are young, you need to live and have fun. You need the freedom to do what you want, like to go travelling, see the world and experience different things. However, if you reach the ages of thirties, then staying single will be a matter for you. The longer you stay single, the harder it becomes to settle down. Sometimes you may feel sad when all your friends are married or attached and they tend to go out and party less. Even more funny thing could be happened if you stay single in your life when over forty, some people think you are strange, especially a single woman. Therefore, if you do not want to get married, would you think it is still a right choice if you are single later on in life?
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- Reply sunnyv
- I found out that quite people get married just for prestige, status and self image. They are afraid that people would view them as outcast or abnormal. Why should people get married just to avoid gossip?
You should get married when you are ready to settle down, found your true love, financially capable and really intend to live the rest of your life with the one you love. Being a bachelor has a lot of wonderful benefits and married life is also great if it works out right.
Remember, wedding rings are the world's loveliest handcuffs. Good luck my friend.
- Reply loly90
sunnyv: I found out that quite people get married just for prestige, status and self image. They are afraid that people would view them as outcast or abnormal ...
So cute and wise comments!
- Reply loly90
- In fact, it's quite simple. If you have met the right one for you, just stay together, if didn't, keep single like me, haha. I never go to bar or some crazy places, i'd rather stay alone and enjoy my peaceful time. Come on, there is a lot of thing we can do. Every family has its own story, some are terrible......of course some are interesting!
- Reply sunnyv
- You know... butterflies goes where the most beautiful flowers are. Wouldn't it be a waste that such a lovely flower is not noticed by all the butterflies?
loly90: In fact, it's quite simple. If you have met the right one for you, just stay together, if didn't, keep single like me, haha. I never go to bar or some ...
- Reply loly90
sunnyv: You know... butterflies goes where the most beautiful flowers are. Wouldn't it be a waste that such a lovely flower is not noticed by all the butterfl ...
One flower for one bee is good enough, too many are abnormal.
- Reply Ausfrank
- Thank you for your honest comment.
sunnyv: I found out that quite people get married just for prestige, status and self image. They are afraid that people would view them as outcast or abnormal ...
The comment has shown a great maturity and I believe that you must have a lot of life experiences. I am so glad to get the advice from you.
The wonderful thing you mention about " wedding rings are the world's loveliest handcuffs", perhaps it is a fear for someone in some cases. I am wondering whether the " handcuffs" could have an expired date or not? Because nothing has a life guarantee these days.
- Reply Ausfrank
- I don't think you will stay single in the future, you just like to play in your age right now, sweet girl.
loly90: In fact, it's quite simple. If you have met the right one for you, just stay together, if didn't, keep single like me, haha. I never go to bar or some ...
"One bee for one flower is good enough", it is only if the bee is good for you. So you should attract more bees in and choose the one whom is made you feel enough.
