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I feel very guilty that I couldn’t accompany with my kid every day. She is still too young and looks too thin. I couldn’t stay with her just for the living condition. So sorry, baby.
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- Reply lovingfun
- In real life, we have to do something even though we not to prefer to. Try to find sometime with her or he, if you try your best, I do think you really can find some time to accompany with him or her.
Don't feel too upset and guilty, instead find someway to care her or him. And hope you feel better now.
- Reply Tange
- it is ok for you and your baby , the temporary separating is acceptable ..
you should not be feel in that way ... come on you are a great mother ..
- Reply sunnyv
- Mother is always mother. It is natural that you worry about your tender child. Seems you are a little over worried. Children living separate from mother is quite common these days. You don't have to be too worried because all the statistics show that children living away from parents are more independent and do well in studies. If you live with your child, she would be too dependent on you and likely to be lazy. Surprised that you still have the old thinking that a child should not be thin. Remember that if your child becomes fat, that is a road of no return and she may have to live a life being overweight. Gain one Kilo is easy but losing one kilo is very difficult.
All you have to do now is keep contact with your child by talking to her more and remind her that mother loves her and care about her. Your child's behavior is influenced by other children and not by you. Just let her grow up gradually and healthily. Sooner or later you would have the chance to live with your child, so until then, work hard and take it easy.
- Reply Candy.liu
- It's hard to say. I am struggling in mind time and time again, but have no better choice only give way to life for the moment. Thanks for your warm words, i will try my best to improve the situation.
sunnyv: Mother is always mother. It is natural that you worry about your tender child. Seems you are a little over worried. Children living separate from moth ...
- Reply Candy.liu
- Thanks for your encouragement. I feel better now.
Tange: it is ok for you and your baby , the temporary separating is acceptable ..
you should not be feel in that way ... come on you are a great mother ..
- Reply Candy.liu
- Thanks. I feel better now. And thanks for you advise, i will find someway to care her instead feeling guilty.
lovingfun: In real life, we have to do something even though we not to prefer to. Try to find sometime with her or he, if you try your best, I do think you reall ...
- Reply lijuanandrea
- i can't agree with Sunnyv more, as a mother, you always worried that children cannot get the best and you cannot give the best, especially when you see other kids stay with their patents, you will miss yours too, but as long as some one is taking care of your kid, just take it easy and keep in touching with your kid, let your kid know that you love and care her. sometimes on special occssion, you can spare one or two days stay with her or send her some small gifts.
to tell you the truth, i am worried that no one will help me to take care of my kid in the future, it;s some kind of lucky that your kid is taking care of . be positive and see things in different aspects. she will grow up beyond your expections. hope your kid and you live happily forever.
- Reply Candy.liu
- Thank you so much.
lijuanandrea: i can't agree with Sunnyv more, as a mother, you always worried that children cannot get the best and you cannot give the best, especially when you ...
And wish you the best.
