I read below sentence from a book, i think it's really nice, i like it very much.

"If you are a flower, please owe the sunshine.
If you are a fruit, please owe the autumn.
If you are a bird, please owe the sky.
If you are a fish, please owe the ocean..."

Yes, holding a mood of thanksgiving to face the life, we will find something different.
Yes, no matter what reasons, other people's compassion, after all, is a kind of goodwill and virtue in a certain degree. Whether we accept or not, at least we should be in a mood of thanksgiving to face the concerns of others and return sincerely.