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Ask oneself, what do you want for your child?
Raise children to provide against old age?
Or have a son to carry on his family name?
Today, i read a very moving answer from wechat, it's said: in order to participate in the growth of a life, as long as she (he) is living in this beautiful world, i have a change to walk with her (him)...
What a beautiful answer!
Raise children to provide against old age?
Or have a son to carry on his family name?
Today, i read a very moving answer from wechat, it's said: in order to participate in the growth of a life, as long as she (he) is living in this beautiful world, i have a change to walk with her (him)...
What a beautiful answer!
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Post comment Comment (7 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- This is an easy to ask but hard to answer question.
Actually, have or don't have children, we can still live on. There are advantages and disadvantages of having children, but people still prefer to have children.. why?
It all starts with the parents. Both men and women have their own reasons for having or not having children.
Men: We feel that we are a real man if we build a family and have children. We don't want to leave this world without children to carry on our family name or evolution. We have to answer to social pressure because people will ask; married 7 years and no children? They would think there are problems with the family. We love children because they fulfill our lives and creates happiness in the family.
Women: The most important milestone in the life of a women is marriage. Once married a woman would feel incomplete unless they have a child. Women have to answer to their own parents who would want to have grandchildren. A marriage seems incomplete without children and there are heavy social pressures for a childless family.
Some people see it as just a natural thing to have children. Once married, children would appear and we would have to raise the child to the best of our ability. My opinion is if we have a child, no matter, son or daughter, we have everything if he/she is healthy, smart, happy and successful.
- Reply Candy.liu
- WOW, dear friend, your analysis is totally deeply, you say what people want to say but can not say, you could be a psychologist, you would help so many people who driven into distraction or lost heart.
- Reply sunnyv
Candy.liu: WOW, dear friend, your analysis is totally deeply, you say what people want to say but can not say, you could be a psychologist, you would help so man ...
Haha... Candy, you're so lovely. Your husband and child is fortunate to have you because, you know how how to live, fit-in and adjust. It is fun and worthwhile discussing things with you.
- Reply Tange
- wow , you have the fully opinions on buillding a family between men and women ...
sunnyv: This is an easy to ask but hard to answer question.
Actually, have or don't have children, we can still live on. There are advantages and disadvantag ...
- Reply Catherine陈
- Yes , we have everything if our children are healthy ,happy and safe. It 's not easy to raise a child .As a parent , we have to learn to grow by ourselves while the children are growing fast . Otherwise , we will have a generation gap .
- Reply Candy.liu
sunnyv:
Haha... Candy, you're so lovely. Your husband and child is fortunate to have you because, you know how how to live, fit-in and adjust. It is fu ...
Thank you. I really learn a lot from you, from the bottom of heart.
