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Hot 51354 views. 2015-11-5 18:48 |Individual Classification:Life| especially, problems, standard, friends, company


Life often doesn’t go as well as what we want. Each family has its own problems. Someone has good job with high income, but has terrible relationship with family members. Someone gets along well with friends and family, but lacks the opportunity to change the living standard. One woman works for a good company in Shenzhen, it’s sure that the welfare and salary also nice. But the trouble is that she doesn't get along well with her family, especially with her parents in law, so that she and her husband quarrel almost every day, their marriage is going to the edge of crisis. But they have a son, both of them don’t want their son to live in a single parent family, so they have to choose keeping the current situation. They still don’t want to change for each other. I feel so sad listening to her complaints. She is very angry for her husband and her parents in law, but doesn’t accept others' opinion to adjust her attitude firstly.  Maybe there is nobody but herself could help her.

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Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2015-11-5 19:24
Making compromises means wisdom. A person who doesn't know that, I'm afraid, might be a little stubborn or childish or foolish .
Reply ada23 2015-11-5 19:42
everyone have own problem in terms of incoming,relationship or health. We are not supposed to be perfect but will be better knowing twisting angle of thinking would be nice to the world.
Reply Tange 2015-11-5 19:51
the powerful women who in the high position in workplace . .. it seem that they are quite easy to treat their  family in the ways as they used in work .
Reply sunnyv 2015-11-5 20:53
People generally see marriage too simple. They don't realize that when they marry, they have to marry the relatives of both sides too. All the troubles are also doubled with each one having their own problems. Confrontation or arguments would never solve these problems.

The wife should be tolerant because the husband has to respect his own parents. A husband which don't respect is parents would also not respect his own wife. Slowly, directly or indirectly try to solve the problem, otherwise the problems grow out of control and end up breaking up the marriage and everybody lose.
Reply Candy.liu 2015-11-5 21:50
IMNONARCISSUS: Making compromises means wisdom. A person who doesn't know that, I'm afraid, might be a little stubborn or childish or foolish .
Yeah, each sticks to his own view will not solve the problem.
Reply Candy.liu 2015-11-5 21:52
ada23: everyone have own problem in terms of incoming,relationship or health. We are not supposed to be perfect but will be better knowing twisting angle of  ...
Yes, no one is perfect, so we keep on trying to improve ourselves.
Reply Candy.liu 2015-11-5 21:54
Tange: the powerful women who in the high position in workplace . .. it seem that they are quite easy to treat their  family in the ways as they used in work ...
You are right, both of them are powerful in the work.
Reply Candy.liu 2015-11-5 22:03
sunnyv: People generally see marriage too simple. They don't realize that when they marry, they have to marry the relatives of both sides too. All the trouble ...
It's really not easy thing. It's not only about two persons, but also relate to two families. A problem may cause a lot of problems. It needs mutual understanding and compromise.
I do agree with you, a man who don't respect his parents would also not respect his own wife, so does the woman. Filial piety is the duty for human.
Reply teadrinking 2015-11-5 22:20
It is more than we can expect in life. Usually there are many things that we can not predict well as we thought. As an old Chinese saying, each family has it own tough story.
Reply Candy.liu 2015-11-6 09:56
teadrinking: It is more than we can expect in life. Usually there are many things that we can not predict well as we thought. As an old Chinese saying, each family ...
And contradiction exists everywhere.

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