These days, I read many books, such as 《The Secret 》。 It is one of the book I like best. In this book, the wise writer tells the readers that everything happens around you has something with your inside ideas. That is to say, if you think you are a good person, you are wise ,kind ,healthy, honest , and all your friends like to stay with you, than you can find, many years later, you become a such good person. Because as long as you have the idea about yourself, you will let yourself learn to become like that. It is true in our life .  I believe this fact.