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Don’t take it too much into heart if someone is not kind to you . nobody is obligated to be nice to you .
In last semester , I often help her with studying in the self-study classroom . finally I picked up my courage to confess to her but she turned me down then . after that ,she has not contacted me for a long time .however ,for the final examination is on the corner ,she asked me for help again and I spared my time to help again . on this Tuesday , I have to review my electrotechnics subject ,so I refused to help her in a euphemistic way . she texted to me very angrily afterwards.
So I think girls the generation after 90s mainly has the princess disease .why should I be obligated to be nice to you and you don’t care about me . I have helped you a lot but I will not give up the forest for you .
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- Reply hurrymm
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I used to be " the girl" in your story back in my college days. A girl usually asks a favor when she is sure of a "Yes" answer which usually derives from guys who have crush on her. Her fury not so much relates to her being a post 90s, but more lies in her pride bing a pretty girl (my guess). Your rejection just beat her pride or even her confidence, making her question her own charm. Moreover, girls always think love eternal, that is, love would never change. You once fell in love with her, then you would love her forever, even though she does not love you. And vise versa.
- Reply Ausfrank
- What do you mean by that, "
finally I picked up my courage to confess to her but she turned me down then"? I don' t get it.
- Reply hurrymm
- By saying “pick up”, the blogger here wants to say " summon his courage and confess his love to the girl", ( in my opinion )
- Reply huabubai2
- What you said is very reasonable! But. I have been completely aware of the way I will go in the future and I have a dream when I am admitted to graduate school of Harbin institute of technology . I am sure girls now are unlikely to change their minds to accept a boy who really love her ,so I just want to invest more time and energy in realistic expectations.
hurrymm:
I used to be " the girl" in your story back in my college days. A girl usually asks a favor when she is sure of a "Yes" ...
- Reply huabubai2
- summon the courage
Ausfrank: What do you mean by that, "
finally I picked up my courage to confess to her but she turned me down then"? I don' t get it. ...
- Reply sunnyv
- Well said, that is the truth and reality.
hurrymm:
I used to be " the girl" in your story back in my college days. A girl usually asks a favor when she is sure of a "Yes" ...
- Reply sunnyv
- Well, there are lots of such people out there. Personally, I never forget when somebody does me a favor. Parents always taught me, ''never forget a favor received''. Even though you had a motive in teaching her, she clearly took advantage of that and trashed you after getting what she wanted. She did not have to be so mean. At least she would show her gratitude.
- Reply Ausfrank
- Ok, let me guess what you said about the girl.
huabubai2: summon the courage
the girl was suspected to take advantage of your generosity and you felt uncomfortable with this situation. Soon after that, you couldn't stand her behaviour. At the end, you took your courage in both hands and told her about the reason that you couldn't helping her all the time, especially when you are busy for your test preparation. She wasn't happy and started playing a revenge game. She made no contact with you at the beginning, later she sent some text messages to insult you. However, you feel that you are under no obligation to help her and you have no commitment of being with her, because she isn't your girlfriend.
Do I guess right?
- Reply huabubai2
- What you said is very close to the fact ! As you said , she isn’t my girl friend ,so she is no as important as my scholarship . If she is my friend , I am willing to give up everything for her .
Ausfrank: Ok, let me guess what you said about the girl.
the girl was suspected to take advantage of your generosity and you felt uncomfortable with this situat ...
- Reply Ausfrank
- "If she is my friend , I am willing to give up everything for her ."
The above statement you made, does the word of "everything" include your life? I hope your answer is NO.
