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I want to calm down so much , but I am failed . I don't want to make trouble to anything or anybody . But who can tell me what I should do when I meet a despicable guy . There is an old saying : If you can't stand the heat , get out of the kitchen . But I have no place to go now . Anyway , just bearing , bearing , and bearing . One day , I would ....
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- Reply Catherine陈
- ignore him . do something you like to please yourself !
- Reply seshuanglala
- But I can't find the second one . What is the next ?
Tange: sorry to hear that .. but in my view , calm down is not the right solution for it ...
- Reply seshuanglala
- I will be try !
Catherine陈: ignore him . do something you like to please yourself !
- Reply sunnyv
- It is hard to give you advice when we don't even know what is wrong. I guess it is inconvenient for you to disclose the reasons.
Most people would just break up the relationship and walk away to a new life. Seems you can't do that for some reason.
What you can do is to try to understand his thinking, show him that you are capable on your own. Take the control back into your own hands. Human nature is that once they have power, they would abuse it for their own satisfaction. Everything can be controlled or settled. Don't let this hold you down in suffering.
- Reply Ausfrank
- I reckon sometimes we can not avoid confrontation between partners and I believe that no one can really help you solve your problems. In the reality, unhappy things have always been around you and you can not hide yourself. You need to be aware of the risk of damage to your relationship if it becomes serious. There is one important question that you do need to made yourself clear about it, you should ask yourself do you still need him?
- Reply DioScofield
- Upstairs said right, it was a not big thing, come on, you can overcome it !
- Reply loly90
- You forgive others, you forgive yourself. For past things, just let it go. Everybody has his own life. Just open your heart, my dear, you can forgive him and his wrong words and thoughts and behavious. If you have nowhere to go, just handle your small place well, chat and talk with him, isn't there an open heart talking between you guys? You can do it, just come on, let's face the facts and solve the problem, you can handle it, just have confidence in yourself.
- Reply seshuanglala
- It is just a small thing , which makes me so angry . But I am ok now . And everything can be controlled or settled . I hope so .
sunnyv: It is hard to give you advice when we don't even know what is wrong. I guess it is inconvenient for you to disclose the reasons.
Most people would ju ...
- Reply seshuanglala
- Yeah , and I want to stress the guy is just a female . some friendship can turn back to the normal , but it's just another part of them . I don't need her anything , so , I would like to give it up . and lucky there is no longer time for me to stay with her . I know what I do now . Thanks
Ausfrank: I reckon sometimes we can not avoid confrontation between partners and I believe that no one can really help you solve your problems. In the reality, ...
- Reply seshuanglala
- Yeah , I am ok now , And I think I have this ability to overcome it .
DioScofield: Upstairs said right, it was a not big thing, come on, you can overcome it !
- Reply seshuanglala
- At this time , I think there is no need to chat and talk with her . Because she is not so important to me , and let all things go . just do better myself .
loly90: You forgive others, you forgive yourself. For past things, just let it go. Everybody has his own life. Just open your heart, my dear, you can forgive ...
