Life is not journey . Don't waste your time for people who are not willing to walk with you . You need to have this encourage to take the first step on this journey alone , there is no lonely , on the contrary , there is full of what will make you unexpected , such as happy , freedom , and cozy life . On the journey , you will make many new friends , feeling the real friendship , sharing happiness and sorrowness . So , there is no need to worry about all of this , you will find everyone is the same with you , you are just the one of them , if you can overcome all of this , and you will success . It's so easy to understand . But why there is so many people can't figure it out ? Maybe , they really need sometime to calm down and get it .