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Tonight , my father told me a message : there is a position in a company that I can consider after I graduate , which is taken responsibility by my relative .
When hearing this , I felt so warm because I find that my parents really always concern about my future life . The work place is my hometown , living with them . To sum up . They don't want me to go out too far , and always worry about me living without any friends , relatives , no one can take care of me in a strange city , and also about the fierce competition outside .
Honestly . I know clearly about all of these , but I have been making full preparations for it since I came to my college , having my own occupational planning , what's more , I made many social practices about it . I am not mean to resist them but I have my own world that I'd like to persue .
Don't know is it right to listen to my own voice ?
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- Reply annayang
- Haha you are lucky that your father can give you hand in your future life.think over then get your choice . If your think that you really interesting in to the job so don't miss it, don't west the time . Otherwise you can go another way by yourself . Maybe hard way will waiting for you but it is choice by yourself !
- Reply lovingfun
- Our own decisions are important, but if you can find a job easily, then just recieve it .Later you can have more energy on other things you like.
Even you get somthing through your hard-working, you will spend lots time and it. At that very moment you will think it worth doing, but later , you will think it wast time.
Anyway, good luck on u. Anyway is ok. Once you make your decision, then do it without any hesitation, and will never regret about what you have done.
- Reply sunnyv
- hmm... this is indeed a difficult decision. Your father's proposal sounds interesting or irresistible, but on the other hand, you would like to use your own efforts to climb the ladder of success. That job your father mentioned gives security and the advantage of being near to friends and family, but you also need to try out your own capability and face challenges by building your own career independently. Both choices have advantages and disadvantages.
I do not think it is appropriate to advice you on this because any decision your make would affect your future or at least the coming several years. You would have to think it out properly yourself and act to the best of your own interest. Don't be afraid of the consequences. Gain or lose, success or failure, nobody knows, but so long as you have made the best choice, let it be without regrets. just make the best decision you can with the resources you have now.
Wish you the best.
- Reply seshuanglala
- No matter where we go , there always exist some obstacles we have to face . At this situation , I'd like to do what I am interested in so that I can have encouragement and energy to solve all of this . Although it is painful .
annayang: Haha you are lucky that your father can give you hand in your future life.think over then get your choice . If your think that you really interesting ...
- Reply seshuanglala
- Thanks , and now , I know clearly what is on my mind , I will make the right choice , but I won't forget to keep in touch with my family and my friends no mater where I am , and when it is .
lovingfun: Our own decisions are important, but if you can find a job easily, then just recieve it .Later you can have more energy on other things you like.
E ...
- Reply seshuanglala
- Yeah , I will try my best to find the right and the best one , and later on , without any hesitation , because I know there is no spilt milk in this world , and once started , I would take on everything .
sunnyv: hmm... this is indeed a difficult decision. Your father's proposal sounds interesting or irresistible, but on the other hand, you would like to use yo ...
