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It seems popular among college students to have a relationship with someone even if most of them know there hardly are lovers that eventually can enter into wedding.Of course confession of love is also seen often.
Many guys or girls who make a confessin to someone are not meant to get a yes answer. Just like a girl friend said that she would not know how to do it if she got a yes answer and she do it just in order to thoroughly put down this tangled feeling. Also,some persons will be upset for somedays afer a refused answer. These no answers are so diverse.Seeing you as my brother or little sister is the commonest excuse.
Looking back to my life in college, not making a confession made me regetful. One day my friend set me up with a guy. I had to admit that hewas a tall and strong guy but i had no instant connection with him. During the process of chitchat, his humor left a particular impression on me.After this so-called blind date,he often chatted with me on qq and all his behavior made me think that he had a feeling for me.Ａfter communicating with him about two weeks,we went out to see a movie. He was a good talker but we seemed had nothing in common.This date made me feel awful.All i knew about him that he was an excellent guy from a teacher family, being a student body president, not playing any computer game After this date, he suddenly became silent on qq and i also did't chat with him any more.I was a girl with a proud heart and in other person's eyes i was also excellent. However, i am a not patient girl and could not put up with his attitude on me.How could him give a failure like this? I felt a great weight of depression insideme.
The thought of this feeling made me mad.Eventually, i called him and made a confession to him.I told him that i liked him and hoped a clear answer whether it was yes or no.He said he needed some time to think it over. It was about at midnight that he send the message asking me why i liked him.It was more like that I had some curiosity about him and knowing he and i were not suitable from the inside.The reason i gave him was that my never making confession in college made me regetful.Just i anticipated, i got refused.He said he had been used to enjoying solitude.At that moment, i felt nothing and even had a good sleepling after i messaged him that i known it and needed to sleep without seeing his excuse any more.He also said that life was magic, encountering so many people but only one pesrson companying us till we die.I have no memory of his face but i do remember this word. Not only was he an excellent guy but also a good one.But i do not deserve him in his eyes.
I thought all about this had already gone like it never happened.But,i am wrong.every time i thouht abou this,i felt sorrow and always want to know the reason even i know there is no need.It seems like i can't accept the failure from him rather than he likes me or not. Sometimes i know that i suspect myself without having enough faith in me so that i can't stay with his rejection,especially from a good guy.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Honestly, it is has nothing to do with your admission or confession of love. When you love somebody or somebody loves you, it would show up in the bits and pieces as the relationship grows. It shows in the constant care, , contact, support and concern etc.
As a man, I know. Most men have an image of the type of girl he likes deep in his mind. When that girl turns up, he would automatically know what to do and go after her. Can this image change? May be, but it would only change with age. When he fails to find his desirable girl, he would accept anything. So, in your case, there could still be a chance that he could return to you. In the meantime, why restrict yourself? Keep your eyes and mind open for somebody else.
It is inevitable you will be turned down at various points in your life. You may get rejected when applying for a job, making a marriage proposal or asking your boss for a pay raise. It is not a nice experience to have, but thankfully it is possible to learn how to handle rejection without letting it destroy you.
Don't take it personally. There are times in our lives when we are rejected simply because of timing. If you ask someone out to lunch but they have already eaten lunch, well they are going to turn you down! If you apply for a part-time job at a department store during the summer holidays, they are going to turn you down because they have enough staff. Some rejections have nothing to do with us. So if you got turned down, do not second guess that you are no good or that no one likes you. It may just be a question of timing!
Know that everyone gets rejected. There are six billion people on this earth. We are all beautiful, unique and different. There are times we are in demand and times we may get rejected. Knowing that rejection is an emotion that many people go through is a reality check! So forget all those regrets and get on with life. Wish you the best.
- Reply zjczjhappy
- So long a reply made me touched! From your words, i can tell that you are a mature guy.Your analysis from a man prospective actually helps to make the point.No matter it is a question of timimg or what,i will not second guess that i am no good.All i need to do is doing what i should do patiently and wait for the good things
