Let's talk about three guys today. Just call them A, B and C.

A is my annoying colleague. I used to like him actually. He was pretty shy before, and afraid to talk to girls. But somehow after three-month business trip to the south, he came back with huge enthusiasm for flirting with girls. He keeps chatting with me on QQ, and even asks me out. I start to feel uncomfortable till one day my other colleague told me that he had a crush on me. Suddenly that explains everything. He is 30 now but haven't being in a relationship before, so his way of hitting on girls is quite childish. I could tell clearly which of his moves is to draw my attention. He is really not my type and after a while I start to realize I'm not the only target he's hitting on. He chats with almost all the female collogues in my company, and posts comments on our blogs and we chat. Maybe he is single for so long a time that he break out finally. God bless him to quickly settle down and focus on career. 

Now it's B's turn. He asks me out again today. We knew each other for 3 years, but we are not familiar. While i was an HR internship, our company is his client, so we went out several times just for work. At that time he asked me out once in private, and I did go. But after that one date I decided never went out with him privately again, because we are not same kind of person. However he kept harassing me on message or QQ, not so frequently, just once in a while. Sometimes when I'm in a good mood I reply, sometimes I just ignore. Under his persistence we didn't lose touch these years. But strangely I think we cannot even be called friends. I know he flirts with all kinds of girls, I'm just one of them, that's why I never take seriously about him. He said recently that he hoped I could give us a chance. I don't know. Maybe I will compromise at last. 

C is kind of a blind date. He is my colleague’s close friend that he wants to introduce me to. We met last Sunday. I think he is great, so much better than other blind dates I have met with. My colleague told me C feels great about me too, but he is considering to work in Shanghai, and he's afraid he would waste my time. I'm not sure if it's just an excuse. I just think it's a pity. We may be a great couple. But what you didn't get is always the best. So I just keep searching for my Mr. Right. 

 I said my writing is poor, and without any logic. I just realized I have used a lot of oral English, and never one long sentence. Anyway, it's just a beginning. I will keep trying!