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Today is the first day of this week, hoping is the good beginning for the whole week. As usual, I drove car to our company from another city which I lived in. I didn’t care where I was working before I enjoyed the company, but, now, I should rethink the problem, why do I come here for working? For the well-paid or the pursuit of the new career, maybe I knew the definite answer in my mind. Sometimes, I would like to give up when I suffered the tough time. Everybody has his inertia more or less including me. Sometimes, I wanted to flee problems instead of facing bravely when under big pressure.
Often, we felt tired because we didn’t feel like giving up what we have owned already and wanted to take more than we could take. Maybe, just as a wise man could get the balance well. Unfortunately, I didn’t think I was the one who had the wisdom.
Often, we felt tired because we didn’t feel like giving up what we have owned already and wanted to take more than we could take. Maybe, just as a wise man could get the balance well. Unfortunately, I didn’t think I was the one who had the wisdom.
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- Reply sunnyv
- My dear friend... You don't know what I went through some years ago when I was struggling in my career. A manager once told me that I was incompetent and useless. He said I was only suitable to be a construction worker. That was my first job and I did not have any experience and the work was difficult to understand. I was constantly criticized my colleagues was having a good time isolating, berating and stepping on me. I tried my best to stay on, gain experience and to prove that I am capable. Eventually I had to give up because only those who had the right connections could survive in that company. There were so many other sufferings I had to go through but it is too lengthy to mention all here.
Adding to this pain was that my second and third jobs was just as bad. At that point, I doubted myself seriously and believed that I was not as good as others in work. It was after a few other jobs later that I finally found my future where the company was fair to all those who really try. I worked my way up from a junior employee right up to the manager post Through this position, I learned how to run a company and decided to start my own business. Everything went quite well and I did not have to depend on those so called bosses for my living.
My purpose of letting you know my experience is that I can say my disappointments and suffering was hundred times more painful than yours. I knew that if I keep walking through dark tunnel, I would see light at the end. Same like me, you are a responsible, secure and confident and forward looking person, but we all have to undergo challenges and stress tests. Don't be afraid, I have been to hell and came back, so can you.
Now you have entered the wrong job and stuck there. It is not your fault and you are not to be blamed. You were only seeking a better future. You would now have to endure the pain of extricating yourself. Look further down the road of jobs and I am confident you would find something better than this. Consider carefully before taking the post. Nothing can be guaranteed but if those in charge don't change, you would have to change.
You do not have to respond in detail to this because I know it is difficult to write on such topics and I understand. It is also not that easy for me to write too.
You are a capable person and can decide on your own future. No matter what action you take, you are doing the best for yourself and there is nothing to regret.
- Reply Catherine陈
- You are great . Learning English is also not easy , but if I can keep on , I also can see the light in the end ,right ? Where there's a will , there is a way .
sunnyv: My dear friend... You don't know what I went through some years ago when I was struggling in my career. A manager once told me that I was incompetent ...
- Reply douglas-baily
- Thanks, I got it! Everytime, I read the words that you wrote left me deep impression. I believe how much suffering I can stand,how much success I can take on.
sunnyv: My dear friend... You don't know what I went through some years ago when I was struggling in my career. A manager once told me that I was incompetent ...
