As the approaching footsteps of spring, the weather outside is getting warm. Spring is the beginning of the year, which symbolizes a new life, everything looks nice in my mind during the best season except the complaints that my wife told. It’s just some trivial matter between my mother and my wife, sometimes, I thought some things happen that It's not a big deal in my opinion. But, to my wife and my mother will have totally different understanding from their side, meanwhile, they didn’t show obviously attitude toward the things. Mostly, they share me some views, then through me to pass it to each other. Maybe, this is because they didn’t want to leave a bad impression to each other so that everything they did was so careful. Under such situations, it’s hard to say it’s a good way or bad way to the problem solved. To be honest, my wife is not a whiner during the daily life, my mother also is a good mother except a little nagging sometimes. As two of the most important persons in my life, I don’t want anyone getting hurt from each other.
    Maybe, all this was caused by my little son delivered to birth several months ago. It caused so much chance getting together between my mother and my wife, then due to different habits, different views of things result in some complaints each other. Actually, try to keep a certain sense of distance is a good way to avoid some unhappy things happened. Normally, woman is more sensitive than a man, so how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really important lesson that every man needs to study well.