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A month ago or so, my roommate accidentally had a girlfriend. Yes, indeed, it was nothing short of an accident: they considered each other okay to the senses, and the male as a rule paid the court, then relationship established. There was no more romance than that beforehand.
However, it was just recently that they broke up. The event was expected and unexpected, for I believe their affairs were but facile, while the reason why they parted was that my buddy admitted that he had some ones else to think more about—can that be more ludicrous?
But the ludicrous just doesn't matter at all for them. They remain good friends, friends who don't lay a finger on each other's hand but, as my buddy claims, friends on terms of not love but more than friendship.
How marvellous is that!
However, it was just recently that they broke up. The event was expected and unexpected, for I believe their affairs were but facile, while the reason why they parted was that my buddy admitted that he had some ones else to think more about—can that be more ludicrous?
But the ludicrous just doesn't matter at all for them. They remain good friends, friends who don't lay a finger on each other's hand but, as my buddy claims, friends on terms of not love but more than friendship.
How marvellous is that!
He said to me one night that she was a girl who meant more than the girls whom he used to think more about. Those girls, at heart, don't seriously associate with him. They on the surface get along with him closely and send for him sweetly with any excuses, but there just lacks a mere sense of equality. "I was nothing but an abject back-up!", he exclaimed with discontentment.
"But she is not the like", my buddy then confessed. "She has the affection same as what I have for her, and as much as that I have for her. She won't leave me behind the second she says goodbye to me, and won't feel it easy to be all the same either with me or without me."
Having heard this, I cannot but finally become envious of him. Anyway, he deserves it. He just gets to love.
大约一个月以前，我的室友很意外地有了个女朋友。是的，这还真是个不折不扣的意外：他们彼此觉得对方在感觉上都OK，然后男方照惯例主动表示追求，接着恋爱关系就正式确立。在那之前甚至都没有一点浪漫的过程。
然而，就在最近，他们却分手了。这事既是出乎意料又是意料之中，因为我相信他们的韵事都只是肤浅的，而他们分手的真正原因是我的哥们承认自己还有其她令他更加惦念的女生——还有比这更荒唐的么？
"But she is not the like", my buddy then confessed. "She has the affection same as what I have for her, and as much as that I have for her. She won't leave me behind the second she says goodbye to me, and won't feel it easy to be all the same either with me or without me."
Having heard this, I cannot but finally become envious of him. Anyway, he deserves it. He just gets to love.
大约一个月以前，我的室友很意外地有了个女朋友。是的，这还真是个不折不扣的意外：他们彼此觉得对方在感觉上都OK，然后男方照惯例主动表示追求，接着恋爱关系就正式确立。在那之前甚至都没有一点浪漫的过程。
然而，就在最近，他们却分手了。这事既是出乎意料又是意料之中，因为我相信他们的韵事都只是肤浅的，而他们分手的真正原因是我的哥们承认自己还有其她令他更加惦念的女生——还有比这更荒唐的么？
但是这荒唐对他们却并没有带来多糟糕的影响。他们维持了好朋友的关系，彼此连对方的手都不会碰一下；但却，正如我哥们宣称的，他们之间虽然不是爱情，却又胜于友情。
这是多么的奇妙啊！
有天晚上他对我说，比起他曾经惦念更多的那些女生，她要意味得更多。那些女生们，从真心里讲，都没有认真地与他来往过。她们表面上和他伴随得很接近，而且用任何甜言蜜语的借口来使唤他，然而这之中就是差一份平等的感觉。“我除了是个低贱的备胎，什么都不是！”他满怀着愤愤地呼叹。 这是多么的奇妙啊！
“但是她就不同了“，我的哥们承认道。”他对于我有我对她一样的感情，而且是一样的分量。她不会在对我说再见的那一秒就把我抛诸脑后，也不会那么容易就觉得有我没我都是一样的感觉。“
听到这些，我终于还是不禁要嫉妒他了。不管怎样，他值得这一切。他懂恋爱了。
