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Aloofness and Love 爱与冷漠
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The antonym of love is aloofness, whose reality
is not only being rarely loved, but also loving rarely. The experience of the
former, as often as people share it, feels everlasting; while the habit of the
latter once cultivated will be the life's greatest disaster.
Fortunately, aloofness itself is not a personality equipped once and for all. In
virtue of this disaster-like quality, on the contrary, one has set off on his
journey to discern the essence of why he yearns in aloofness, and what a harvest
from love he has conceived. In their hearts there is hard-won wisdom,
generated from immense and profound introseption, that they have in mind and
even in sight what the morality of true love should be like — even though they
are accompanied by no one, they are accompanied by love in
person.
爱的反义词是冷漠，其现实不仅是难能被爱，更是难能去爱。前者的经历，正如人们经常都有的，让人觉得没有尽头；而后者的习性一旦养成就会是人生最大的灾难。幸运的是，冷漠本身不是一个一旦具有就永不改变的个性。反而，借助这个灾难一样的特性，一个人已经开始了自己的旅途，认出他为什么要在冷漠中渴望的实质，以及他已构想了在爱中怎样的收获。在这些人中有难得的智慧，这智慧从极大极深的自省中产生出来，那就是他们心中甚至眼中都能有真爱的品质应该是什么样子——即使他们没有任何人陪伴，他们却有爱的亲身的陪伴。
爱的反义词是冷漠，其现实不仅是难能被爱，更是难能去爱。前者的经历，正如人们经常都有的，让人觉得没有尽头；而后者的习性一旦养成就会是人生最大的灾难。幸运的是，冷漠本身不是一个一旦具有就永不改变的个性。反而，借助这个灾难一样的特性，一个人已经开始了自己的旅途，认出他为什么要在冷漠中渴望的实质，以及他已构想了在爱中怎样的收获。在这些人中有难得的智慧，这智慧从极大极深的自省中产生出来，那就是他们心中甚至眼中都能有真爱的品质应该是什么样子——即使他们没有任何人陪伴，他们却有爱的亲身的陪伴。
