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I saw many friends living a life they don't like.
Perhaps now the young are with a great pressure. It is true life cost is too much compared with income.
But do you want your current state to continue? Where is the end?
Actually, every time is of bad and good. What you should do is condition yourself and become outstanding. As long as you labor, you will must get more than you lose. No fruits come to you without reason.
I began with a carefree life after college. At that time, house is much cheaper than now. So is renting.
But I think a great working career is most important. If you work prominently, you will have a relatively relaxed living.
Make your job great, greater, you will harvest what you want, you will harvest satisfaction.
Complaining is less than useless. At least, you should condition yourself content.
But as a young, you should endeavor rather than stand still.
Let yourself with a high spirit！Words, actions, look, even your dressing. All is good, each one is good too.
Hope you are not bored here.
Thank you!
Post comment Comment (7 replies)
- Reply jennie_li
- More and more people think money is everything in life,so they lived very tired.Don not give yourself pressure,get everything attentively,then you will have a big overstep for you life and work.
- Reply penfield
- Money should not be a goal of life. If you succeed with only money, you will feel empty; if you failed with money, you no doubt will feel embarrassed or angry. So let the old words your goal, then money will come as byproduct.
jennie_li: More and more people think money is everything in life,so they lived very tired.Don not give yourself pressure,get everything attentively,then you wi ...
- Reply sunnyv
- You have pointed out the pain and sufferings people in general.
A lot of people are holding jobs they don't like just for the purpose of survival, time is passing fast and they must make their mark in life. Males are anxious to have a good job and high income, buy a house and have a comfortable life, get married, start a family and account to parents. Females are anxious and under great pressure to find a good and successful partner to get married and start a family which drives them crazy and worried.
All these are normal and reasonable expectations, but it is putting so much pressure on everyone. Good jobs are hard to get and a good successful and caring husband seems out of reach for the girls. Parents are giving heavy pressure to make money, get married and settle down.
The truth is that most of the people can only afford a normal rented home, live a frugal lifestyle and unable to save much money because the salary does not allow much savings. In the end, everyone is uncertain what lies ahead.
I have to say that we should not press ourselves so hard and push ourselves to such extremes. A lot of things are not in your control and quite often, even if you try very hard, you can't make your wishes come true. I am not saying that we should not try hard, but must understand that there are lots of people and graduates seeking jobs and the good paying jobs are very few or even not available to regular people. We should find innovative ways to improve ourselves. Chances would appear from time to time and you should grab those chances when they are available. Those chances should appear when there new management or new staff join the company, or some friends would suggest to try some new ventures. Whether you can succeed or not depends on a lot of things, like your fare, luck, and the overall economic conditions of the country.
There are a few moments in your life when you are truly and completely happy, so don't set your expectations too high. Most of the things in life are illusionary.
- Reply penfield
- Dio will last only because it is full of positive spirit. Where does the spirit come from? Definitely from quite a few positive clients.
sunnyv: You have pointed out the pain and sufferings people in general.
A lot of people are holding jobs they don't like just for the purpose of survival, t ...
Sadly, I have not seen such ones. Too many with lowness. I think that is why many friends did not come for a long time.
- Reply sunnyv
- Can't agree with you that Dio is so pitiful. In fact, I find quite a lot of members who are honest with good intention including you.
penfield: Dio will last only because it is full of positive spirit. Where does the spirit come from? Definitely from quite a few positive clients.
Sadly, I have ...
We are here to help each other and to live happier. Lowness? I wonder who those people are?
Anyway, this is a friendly site and I hope everyone can benefit from the mutual assistance.
- Reply penfield
- I think I knew less friends than you, and less about them than you.
sunnyv: Can't agree with you that Dio is so pitiful. In fact, I find quite a lot of members who are honest with good intention including you.
We are here to h ...
But as far as I know, many friends appear passive.
Perhaps, it is many, but not majority.
