we had a regular reunion yesterday night, we talked a lot, and have a drink.on one hand, we worked too hard recently for relax on body and spirit , one other hand, as a greetings, we have a new member joined the group. when we together, talked about many topic of daily life, the crazy stock market, relive the happier and pure period of college, the latest working status, but in second part, we mentioned a very special and invariably hard to control the relationship well between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is a common issue in the earth, i don't know whether there have a statistic how many family encounter the same issues. from history to today, there haven't no any solutions or good suggestions on it. i also don't know how the foreigners to dispose this relationship.Although we have not live with my parents together, but my mother and my wife still have much disagree with each other, not because the distance of age, but because of the different cultural circumstance, the habit of living, the taste of food and so on, sometimes i was even envy of handling the relationship well.as a sun and husband, i was the key point between them. sometimes it's easy, but in a special situation, no matter what i said, they still have a mistake each other for a period, the relationship between them should be the hardest affair in the world, we just only to adjust and learn to reduce the conflict.i believe and identify it will be a great sight in after a short period.