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The emphasis of man's daily habit on children
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With we live in the fast-paced life in the metropolis, our daily habits will affect some others, although we may consider that it's not affected or have not realize that we have hurt them, especially the growing-up children, only one word or sentence, will deeply hurt their immature heart, what's more, this will even affected the whole of their lifetime. the children will remembered the bad memory of the childhood. in the modern society , much more children become precocity and know of much knowledge not in the appropriate stage. especially in the imitate and needed much encourage stage. the parents's daily habit will straight-forward mapped on the children. who is the best and the most deeply affected in the growing-up children, it's the parents. especially in the fast-tempo society, we work hard and try our best to gain the high quality environment and give our children a better living and learning condition. many parents are not much time to accompany with their children, instead of taking care of their daily life is their grandmother and grandfather. Due to they much spoil the child, the child make some not so well habits, when the parents realize the bad habit and being eager to revise them.it's tough and abyssal way. when they are angry with the habits and said un-appropriate way,even using the heavy of mood. it's always hurt their immature heart.Finally, the child corrected their habits and forward to a correct way. yes, my friend has a smart sun, they take them to their side till prepare for attending school. But as the time goes on, the bad habit manifest on their child. my friend has a hothead, when he see the bad sight. he always reprimand his sun in a bad mood in front of all friends. But he realize his mistake finally when he see his diary one day. He changed his method to guide on his lovely sun, He and his sun make different situation like as friends now. When i heard him this words and joke to him that your sun release from your palm finally.
According to this, and in my humble opinion, the children should be have a better environment when they grow up, but the emphasis is, the parents should take much time to accompany with their children, and use a appropriate way to guide them, although it's hard to control. try our best to as our children as a friend. and give them their own time to choose and make a decide on some affairs. If we insist, and i believe and will see a different scene. saying is much easier than do, if i meet this situation, i even don't know that control it well.
Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Children learn their habits from parents before the age of 8. That is why people say 'Age 7 determines age 80''. They would copy their parents bad habits at that age. The most important character developing age is 10-17. Their friends and schoolmates would influence his character and way of thinking, so we must pay attention to what type of friends he is having and discourage they from those undesirable friends. In my class of 40 students many smoking cigarettes and I did not follow that smoking habit. As a result I was attacked for not being in the group. Looking back I am glad I did not join, otherwise now I would have a hard time trying to quit smoking.
It is not much use being strict to children. It is better to be friendly to them making it easy to guide them and they would tell you their feelings.
- Reply Candy.liu
- I do agree that accompanying is the very important even the best way to teach or educate the children, but in fact, it's a pity that there are so many parents couldn't stay with their kids for some certain reasons. Maybe there should be no excuse in front of children. So just try our best to accompany with the kids as much as possible.
