I have been learning English for last more than 2 years ,every time when i looked back,i found   my real journey in English was starting from the graduation from college .It did hit me to realize the importance of English to travel around Beijing in 2013 that my big brother payed the fee.when I went to society ,I made my mind to learn English.about 3 moths ago ,i left shenzheng for shanghai.friends around me always asked me why i chose come back to shanghai even though i still had a pretty good work with good salary.response to this question,my answer always would be “cuz shanghai is more closer to my homeland than shenzheng ,convenient for me to go home without taking much time ......”.From the bottom of my heart ,i know what is the biggest reason why i came back again. In fact ,people at our age not only should take the responsibility to our parents ,but for ourselves .i think lot of young people had similar conditions like this:every time we called back ,it cant be avoiding this topic that when you will come home with your girlfriend,we don’t care about how much money you earn,how great achievements you achieved ,what matters us is your big marriage thing.”For me ,i always replied with big smile and confidence like “don’t worry mom,I will be ok .I can handle this by myself,it is not a right time for me to go for a girlfriend ,establish my own career into solidarity is the first thing for me .100% I will find a girl next year,lol.   

       The pressure is not only from our parents ,but from people who around me to get married and have a children .Like when we start to browse some social network ,there were lots of friend posted the pic of their weddings or babies,sometimes it gave me lots of pressure.And every time when we hanging out with friends ,they started talking something into another topic ,at past 2 yeas ,maybe they talked beautiful places ,food ,gossip about some stars ......but now house price ,their babies ,the wedding they will hold are gonna be the topic .we see everything has been changed around us ,it is so fast .And in another way,we haven’t done something in our career that also makes our full of anxious.

       Under such a pressure circumstance ,i shall think about my career and further before making any decisions.Time flies,there is no time for me to waste anymore.I have changed my job in different areas for the past 2 years ,i was confused ,and for a while ,and also lost myself on my way.Wherever i go,what kind of job i did,during my leisure time ,I enjoy the moment when immerse myself into English.Finally,i told myself ,why don’t you do something related with English ,that would be fun and enjoyble for yourself.such as,translator,English teacher,international trade and so on.I know that if you wanna try a new career,you’d better do it as soon as possible .Once a decision was made ,don’t hesitate anymore,u should turn your thought into reality.

      And another reason for me ,if I come back ,i get a lot of chances to hang out with foreign friends who i met 2 years ago,even though I was in Shenzheng ,I have been keeping touch with them, cuz i know it is hard to get chance to talk with native English speakers,I should cherish this.I told them the news that i will come back to shanghai again ,they seemed very happy.

On the 8th of May,I went to shanghai by high-speed rail after taking my drive licence.Even though ,I have been there before,when I got there, I feel completely strange,on the bright side,my friend who is in shanghai offered me a room to live,which makes me feel a little bit more warmness.

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