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Hot 5698 views. 2014-9-11 17:17

School life is coming back soon and now I`ve already sat in my dorm with my roommates.

I`m a junior student now and there`s only one year left for me to find a decent job.I feel a little bit stressed and anxious because enough expertise and working experience haven`t been achieved.

But i have the confidence that after struggling and exerting myself on study for a year,great progress will be made.
 
My boyfriend is my biggest worry,however.He is really a considerate and patient boyfriend,like a soul mate to me.Closely related to him,I see him as the most trustable man in the world. But i find him playing too much recently and extremely relecutant to make efforts.He failed an exam last semester and the make-up exam is coming in 5 days.He has no knowlwdge of the content but he still isn`t willing to sit down and bury himself in books.

I never demand him being the best student in his class because i know everyone has his own shining part.But this attitude is too passive and I can`t stand now.

I always want him to be self-motivated,I don`t want to act like his mother who pushes him a lot.

But what am I supposed to do now?Doesn`t he have the desire to advance?

Please give me syme advice.I`m highly appreciate  that.

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Reply teadrinking 2014-9-11 20:32
School time goes very fast and there is one year left, and it is the situation for most of students who have the same intense anxiety as you have now.

Besides, as your boyfriend, I do not know the exact reason. Maybe he just meets something bothered, or feels boring, and even does not want to take further movement on account of many reasons.

So, you both, might have a talk, just free talk to let know well what does he think of at present and upcoming graduation. Meanwhile, he will also know what is your plan and worries.

Apart from economic independence, we are all gowwnup, not kids anymore. Surely, you are right that you haven't pushed him too much, while you need a chance to communicate with him on some level.

We can not make sure what the future will be like, but we can seize the present moment to be ready enough for the future.

Good luck.
Reply xingyue 2014-9-11 20:37
I think this last year is the most confused time in campus, making one be stressed and anxious. If he has been just unwilling to study of late, maybe he also feels upset or distracted for the coming graduation. It is important to have communications patiently and then find the reasons and resolutions together. Anyway, the exam is coming soon, it would be better to escape from the bad state quickly.
Reply Nikkii 2014-9-11 22:43
My situation is very similar with you. It seems that I'm always very busy and tired, but he is just enjoying life. I've talked with him for several times, but he doesn't change, although he told me that he would...
Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2014-9-16 20:48
A man is clear aboutl what  he can do and what he should do and what he is doning.  I f your boyfriend knows that, just let him be!
Reply rubyding1226 2014-9-24 22:29
Nikkii: My situation is very similar with you. It seems that I'm always very busy and tired, but he is just enjoying life. I've talked with him for several ti ...
So what`s the situation now?Did you solve the problem?The similar thing happened again today,and I`m furious now.I reject to talk to him and see him because i need time to really think about this relationship......

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