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I‘m at home for the holiday~~~~~~`
My hometown is a small city with good environment, slow pace of life, and underdeveloped economic. People here don’t have big life pressure, nor do they have broad outlook. I love hanging around with my friends, but it seems that I’m going different ways with them.
Yesterday I met one of my besties from high school. She works in a local bank now, and has an admirable boyfriend. Lately she is preparing for their wedding and learning to become a proper daughter in law. The boy is from a big and rich family that has a lot of rules, so apparently she needs to change a lot.
She really has changed a lot. We had crazy days both in high school and in college, but now she is a quiet girl, quitting all the sports and parties that she used to be obsessed in. Yesterday’s afternoon was long for both of us, we don’t have a lot in common now, she is not excited for our old dreams and current news, even the handsome guys and gossip can’t arouse her interest. She is really working hard to be a qualified wife.
We went to watch the movie Dearest, and went home without having dinner to lose weight, maybe that’s the last thing we are in common now. Although I think it’s a little early for us to give up freedom and dreams in such a young age, I’m happy for her, she has found her Mr. Right and is to start a new happy life. Besides, I shall not feel depressed for becoming estranged with her.
Today I saw a sentence saying there is no “right choice”, it’s our endeavor that makes the choices seem right.My dear friend, I hope your choice is the best one. And although we are no as close as we used to be, I will always stand by you.
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- Reply xingyue
- At home? It is somewhat sweet. It seems that in my hometown local residents also live a slow-paced life. A big and rich family is likely to associate with higher requirements for the daughter-in-law. Sometimes it is unavoidable to be estranged with some friends owing to various reasons, which is a pity but we have to accept. I agree that there is no right choice, and we are based on our own standards defining "right" or "wrong". We always make our choices which would be defined by the time.
- Reply Nikkii
- yes, I really like the sentence, it is very instructive, and encouraging
xingyue: At home? It is somewhat sweet. It seems that in my hometown local residents also live a slow-paced life. A big and rich family is likely to associate ...
- Reply Nikkii
- it just happened too quickly that beyond my imagination, anyway we are still best friends, that's the most important:)
HeroGeng: Time is changing people.
- Reply kyle2012
- It is believed that everything can be changed by the TIME no matter what it is so don't be too anxious about the valuable relationship,even though it's one of your best wonderful memory you had. be happy !!
- Reply Nikkii
- Kyle~~long time no see you! Yes I can understand my friend, anyway I'm the one who knows her the best. And everyone needs to make efforts on the way of life.
kyle2012: It is believed that everything can be changed by the TIME no matter what it is so don't be too anxious about the valuable relationship,even though it' ...
