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How much do you value?

Hot 6687 views. 2014-10-16 19:48 | boyfriend, specialty, relative, studying, biology

      Today morning my boyfriend sent me messages mentioning  that, his friend who will get the master degree this winter has got several offers.And the medium salary of the postgraduate students studying  engineering specialty is 15w plus one year.Well,it shocked me.Because I had been studying biology relative specity,and working still in reserach institute.People working in institues get the income much less than that.Even a Phd doesn't get that much money one year.So I felt a little sad and sent some depressed messages.As usual our conversation ends with unhappiness.Then I think about the question  that whether the industry or the ability lead to how much you should be paid for?Although the ability is the basic requirement,different industry people's salary has large difference. I feel unstastified and don't know how to change this situaton.I didn't give positive energy again.The biggest peoblem between us is that he always feels my negative.Actually I think the money doen't determine the level of happiness.But as we have been not together for a long time,I don't know how to experss myself in truth.It's hard for me to statisfy him everytime.Of course maybe my negative mood is too much but I have not  felt it.
         It seems that this article has been off the topic.But to be honest how much do I value in the society?

Post comment Comment (6 replies)

Reply samanthe 2014-10-16 20:24
i think the salary is based on the difficient positions,engineer is a hard work, they often need to exend their working time to finish the urgent matter, you pay and you  are paid.
and every company has the fixed cost for each position, you should not focus on this point.
Reply xingyue 2014-10-16 22:24
I think the salary is really charming, but I cannot do the job indeed. Well, the one must have made tough efforts who gain some abilities to be qualified for the offers. Of course, some industries have a kind of advantage on making money.
Reply Nikkii 2014-10-17 06:56
maybe you have a more relaxing working atmosphere. I understand the feeling that you know all the general principles but you just cant stand the feeling of not being as good as others.maybe it's just a problem of endeavor? apparently you have your own value in this society, try to find it and use it.best wishes.
Reply sharemy 2014-10-24 19:21
I'm a senior this year.We are looking for jobs again and again.Many people will not choose the company who gives the low salary and everyone wants to enter into the big corporation.As far as I'm concerned, it is not the salary but the interest that attracts me.I don't care the salary,the scale of the company.What I wil do and whether I like to do are the  important factors I will consider.Money can't represent one's value and the biggest value is how much happiness you can get from your job.
Reply kuin 2014-10-25 14:05
Whether you and your boyfriend can reach agreement is not so important ,it's respect among you and him that counts.He told you the salary thing and you listening and thinking,or gently talking about this ,but not trying to convince each other.Everyone has its thoughts,no matter it's right or wrong. Learning to respect between lovers is essential.Hope you be good!
Reply Jessica_Peng 2014-10-27 20:31
Well, sometimes the value of one person is not judged by his salary, but by what he has done. Don't be annoyed by the salary thing. I think everything will be better tomorrow. what really matters is that do you like your work?

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