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This is the last year of my college life. Like many other students, I choose to take part in the postgraduate exams. Frankly speaking, this way is not easy as I have imaged. With this choice I have to face tremendous stress.
The dominated pressure is from myself. I'm major in English but now I intend to change it into archaeology, it means that I have no professional knowledge enough. That's a fatal disadvantage of me compared with other students who major in archaeology. Meanwhile, my parents didn't approve my way. They couldn't understand why a girl wants to learning this subject. My mother even siad that I was too selfish. Yes, they worry about my future.
Now, the exam is forthcoming, but I have not really prepared well, neither knowledge nor confidence. Sometimes I feel puzzled, when dream is conflict with real life, if I should insist on my dream? To be or not to be, that' a problem.
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- Reply A-C
- As a matter of fact, you have no choice but to take the exam since the date is approaching. There is no leeway to go. Secondly, you must be interested in archaeology as you choose it to continue further study. No matter what other people say, just following your inner heart. The biggest enemy is yourself, not the matter itself. It's very important for you to be confidence and brave to face the difficulties. You may say:"Easier said than done." Well, trying to start the first step, and the next will become easier. As to the future, what I want to say is that, focusing on the present and trying your best to do excellently. It will increase your worry by thinking too much about future. No one can predict future. Calm down and prepare the forthcoming exam patiently. Cheer up!
- Reply Horea
- Thanks
A-C: As a matter of fact, you have no choice but to take the exam since the date is approaching. There is no leeway to go. Secondly, you must be interested ...
- Reply kuin
- This year is the last of my college life too.I have three roommates,they are all preparing the postgraduate exams.Everyone has pressure,I'm facing the situation ,finding a good job.You must understand that anxiety is useless and bad,so put all your attention and energy on the exam is a wise behavior.Ask for help form your teacher and relax yourself.The teacher will tell you how to catch the difficult points in the postgraduate exams and relaxing will help you have a better condition in study.The most important is to be confident and forget everything,devote all your body to the exam.hope you have a good result!come on!
- Reply DarKnight
- Everyone has his own problem. I major in international politics, and my parents worry about my future job too. However, I just insist and try to read classical books and talk to my professors. Thinking too much is useless, instead, we should do something to promise ourselves a future.
- Reply xingyue
- It must be not sustainable to giving up without a try, which may become regret in the future. Do your best in the examination firmly. I am also puzzled as a job-hunter, and I like "A-C"'s words.
- Reply xingyue
- I really appreciate your words. Get some inspirations from them in such a puzzled mind, and thank you.
A-C: As a matter of fact, you have no choice but to take the exam since the date is approaching. There is no leeway to go. Secondly, you must be interested ...
- Reply A-C
- It's my pleasure
xingyue: I really appreciate your words. Get some inspirations from them in such a puzzled mind, and thank you.
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- I am a graduate, too. So I understand how you feel. To tell you from my heart, I'm in favor of your choice. Although your parents are consider for you, you should hold your own life. we are still very young, so we have a unpredicable future. And when you do something true love,your parents will also proud of you. So, go for it! You can! I hope this can help you.
- Reply Horea
- I feel better by you words. And also give you my best wish, hope you will find a fitting job.
kuin: This year is the last of my college life too.I have three roommates,they are all preparing the postgraduate exams.Everyone has pressure,I'm facing the ...
- Reply Horea
- Yeah, tht's right,and I will be.
DarKnight: Everyone has his own problem. I major in international politics, and my parents worry about my future job too. However, I just insist and try to read ...
- Reply Horea
- Sometimes I just conflict with myself,but I konw I won't to give up.You konw ,that's a common problem among most of us.
xingyue: It must be not sustainable to giving up without a try, which may become regret in the future. Do your best in the examination firmly. I am also puzzle ...
