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I have learnt a lot from my roommates tonight, about my shortcomings, the relationship with roommates and so forth. I had never known that I had so much questions during the past two years. It's definitely right that we can know ourselves very much from other people. Most importantly, I appreciate my roommates very much for pointing out my weakness. Now, I know how to do to be a excellent person.
I have to admit that I am a little impatient when they point out the disadvantages I have. What makes me surprise is that they are trying to avoid the fierce debate when we have the different ideas, while I am unwilling to give in. How aggressive I am! How regret when I think of this! I said to myself silently that this cannot happen the next time.
What I know is that I am the person who is unwilling to believe other people, even the roommates. I seldom tell them about my personal affairs, even when I am in trouble, I never ask them for help, they feel that I treat them as the strangers, which is so heart-struck. It seems that I have ignored the concern all the time and never care about. It is hard for me to open my heart to other people. Maybe it is the personality that determines what I am. They tell me that there are many good people in this world, which is not so bad as you think. Please try to love other people and accept their concern. Being a optimistic person~
I do believe that they are really care about me. It is the true friends who are willing to point out your shortcomings. A nodding acquaintance can never do this. It is fortunately that I have a chance to find the true friends around me. Meantime, I can realize my errors in the interpersonal relationship in time. I promise that I will definitely correct the disadvantages I have and make a good relationship with my roommates. Thank you very much--my roommates.
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- Reply Soar
- usually people won't point out our shortcomings for afraid of hurting our feelings. Actually we do need some friends who tell us the real feeling they towards us. True friends will give us some useful advice when we are trouble like we want to show our concern to them. We just want to express we are friends, we are needed each other.
- Reply Jason2014
- yes, I have a similar question as you,sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone, just do it by myself that my wife said to me , you are so stubborn, no one want to like to go with you. She said one sentence that I remembered clearly that no one can be succeed by alone, you need advises and help from team when you suffer difficult, just one word can help you pull it through sometimes. When you open your heart to others whether you encounter difficulties or not. Sharing your mood bad or good, just like you wrote blogs in dioenglish sharing to us , you will grow stronger and stronger, Trust you and me ！
- Reply Rene
- Other's advice is important for us to change our shortcomings, we all have done something wrong that we didn't realize, so accepting others' advice is a good way for us to change the shortcomings and meet a better me in the future!
- Reply A-C
- It is the ture friends that will point out our shortcomings. I definitely appreciate them very much and I will cherish them forever.
Soar: usually people won't point out our shortcomings for afraid of hurting our feelings. Actually we do need some friends who tell us the real feeling they ...
- Reply A-C
- I will learn to open my heart to my friends gradually, thank you!
Jason2014: yes, I have a similar question as you,sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone, just do it by myself that my wife said to me , you are so stubborn, no ...
- Reply A-C
- You are right! The advice from friends are very important to me.
Rene: Other's advice is important for us to change our shortcomings, we all have done something wrong that we didn't realize, so accepting others' advice is ...
- Reply Lizzieliu
- It is said that the one who can point out your weakness is your real friend.I used to be anxious when there are different opinions,but finally you will know it will be so boring if everyone is the same with you~
