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I wanted to learn something new, which I had mentioned long time before. But, I did not put into action. I am guilty to say this. Indeed, there is not easy to learn something new too. There was a lot of stuff which took up my time and my focus.
Otherwise, time flies horriblly. I am afraid that I do not have any year fruit which I could count it as achivement to the end of the year.
I once heard that "Make a decision and live with it. Don't make a decision and life will go on, and you will still live with it " It is true. But I also once heard that "the unexamined life is not worth living" If we don't have pursueing , dream , the vision for better life, we just can not move farwards. Maybe we may run out the time. But that is surely not what we want.
Life is tough. Running away for a while is possible. But I count it as a tactic for rebounce. Sometimes we just need a place where nobody get known about us to lick our wound and to start a new life too.
National holiday is almost there. May everyone has a good or a not bad national holiday.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Quite often, we criticize ourselves unreasonably for not making big achievements or progress. We give ourselves too much pressure unnecessarily. Everybody wants to be successful and proud, but is it so easy? It is not. First, we have to make a basic salary for living, otherwise we would be begging on the streets. We have to use a lot of effort to make ourselves useful to keep the job and salary. We need regular income no matter how less it is.
Then comes the scary worrying thoughts about our future. Are we going to work on a low pay job forever? Others are making more than me and they are living a better life than me. All these are unnecessary pressures.
So are we going to sit here and wait for luck and money to fall from the sky? No. We have to look around us and think where are the chances we can succeed. Sometimes, we have to be daring and brave. Sometimes we have to be careful and thoughtful. Act at the right time and right place. You can only succeed if that there are chances in front of you. If there are no chance for you to move up, it is not your fault. The present time may be to gain experience and knowledge. When the chance comes you can readily grab it.
I remember the days when I had nothing and depended on my parents for living. I had a low income only enough for my food and daily expenses. I can't even pay rent. I asked my friends and looked around my company to see what I can do. Most of the suggestions was to start my own business. I started to be friendly to customers and they said they would support me if I start my own company. Later, I met one customer and told him sincerely my dream to do my own business. He half pitied me and half encouraged me and then he said he would support me totally and immediately gave me my first order. I completed the order perfectly and he then gave me further orders. I was then earning profits of up to 25% due to my bargaining power to reduce cost. Eventually, I made enough money to buy my own home and achieved financial self sufficiency.
What others can do, you can do it too.
- Reply teadrinking
- You have done great job by the efforts you paid and finally realized the freedom of yourself both in life and work.
sunnyv: Quite often, we criticize ourselves unreasonably for not making big achievements or progress. We give ourselves too much pressure unnecessarily. Every ...
- Reply teadrinking
- Do not feel bad. As long as we are on the way, we can achieve something as we want.
Time is just right there, while we have so many things we want. Therefore, what we have to do is to find those which are right for ourselves. Since we our energy is limited, focus on one or several things we can do. Then what we should do is to make the plan. Surely, make a plan is not that hard, while put plan into action is not that easy. We need to know why do we have to be so hard on the those things. If they are really deserved to own and good for our future, just do it.
Hard it is, but we have to and also that is life teaches us to see the beautiful world we have to endure painful and misreable experience somehow to arrive at the final destiny.
Good luck and wish you have a good time on National Day.
