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Do not say the uncessary words to annoy others
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There is never too old to learn. Life is always giving us widoms or insights to appreciate it.
I happend to read one piece of article, "Do not say the unneccassary words to annoy others" I found that I did have same personal experience with it.
My mom did all the housework. But I never say thank you. Instead, I sometimes complained with her if I found the bawl, which i took, was not that clean. I just forgot what he had done all those nice work. Otherwise, it just happens sometimes for this kind of case.
Wish everyone "happy thanksgiving"
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- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- There are too many things that should be paid attention however we are always too careless to do. How sorry. I have the same experience, too.
- Reply woshiwangmum
- We always take our parents for granted regardless of all the troubles they take to raise us、What's worse, sometimes we are not easy to satisfy and full of complaining. It is said that the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill. We should draw a lesson from this and be grateful for everything we've had right now.
- Reply jaylinxuxun
- we are easy to ignore others devoting, expecially for those parents unconditioned devotion. It reminds us that gratefulness and thanksgiving are requested for everyone. Without parents unconditioned devotion, we are nothing.
woshiwangmum: We always take our parents for granted regardless of all the troubles they take to raise us、What's worse, sometimes we are not easy to satisfy and fu ...
- Reply jaylinxuxun
- yes, We takes many things as granted. So I think that festival does have its particular function. Like thanksgiving, it reminds us to appreciate and be grateful to others devotion.
IMNONARCISSUS: There are too many things that should be paid attention however we are always too careless to do. How sorry. I have the same experience, too.
- Reply sunnyv
- Come on my friend. You don't have to be so regretful about criticizing your mom. We have all done those bad things. So long as you care about your mother, then everything is fine.
I have also used harsh words to my mom for putting too much salt in my food. She sat at the sofa with watery eyes and said that she is getting old and can't remember things, so she might have put the salt twice. She said I did not have to shout at her. I felt so sorry about that but mothers love and care are unconditional so it is easy for her to forgive me and I forgive myself.
During this season of thanksgiving, we need to be grateful to those people around us, who have cared for us all along.
I have never understood the American custom of Thanksgiving. The meaning is supposed to be peaceful co-existence, but the farmer co-exited with the turkey until thanksgiving day only when it would be killed and served as dinner. That is not peaceful. In America, it takes 12 hours to prepare a thanksgiving dinner but all eaten in 20 minutes. I did not notice anyone being grateful to the mom for the big feast. They say the turkey is for thanking god for all the blessings. Perplexed.
