I see freinds here are talking about lonely.

 

I used to think that introvert people more like alone , so that introvert people probablly are easier to feel lonely. But people  say " l am alone, but I am not lonely" So, whether people feel lonely or not , it is not because there are not friends to hang out to have fun etc. Lonelyness is a kind of sociel issues. It is lack some kind of security, not safes, worrysome etc.

 

Society"s fast developping and fierce social competition, most people are struggllng for the suvival , there is surely not other time to take care of others feeling or inside circle condition. We become more indifferent day by day.  When we are in work, we face the computer , there is very few chances to communicate with other colleagues, when we back  to home, we close our door, We not even know that who are our neighours. Otherwise, shopping on-line is convenient and easy. we don't even need to go out to buy the stuff, we can stay alone in home and just click the vertual botton by phone or Ipad to select , submit and make the payment.

 

For people who are struggling for making a living in metropolis cities, it is much worse. We come to a strange city, we do not have much friends here. But home is far away. There is the reason to add up to why we feel more lonely too. House price is rocket high, we just rent in here, there is not root in here. In the big city, people come, people gone, it is very natural. Otherwise, buying a house is more like a mission impossible.

 

China's one child policy, which contributed to this kind of lonely feeling too. I have to admit that my childhood was less colorful because there was not other children to play with me. My characteristcs is more silient type of person. I am too shy to speak enough louder when I communicated with stranger in my youngnese time. 

 

I suppose to talk about how to solve out this kind of feeling. But, I won't because I probably have quite fit for this kind of feeling. It is too natural for me. I don't even think it is not good.