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The strange will not hurt us. Because we do not have the touch line in life. Even sometimes we get the un-equal treatment by others, but we do not have any deep emotion in the relationship, so it can not hurt us too. I found the most hurting comes from the people who we have the closest relationship. In other words, sometimes we hurt our most beloved one deeply too.
Sometimes we complained about that somebody did not love us enough. But how to judge about the depth of the love? Does it need to come to the moment between life or die? Wow, I am myself still confused about this question.
But I do not think everything needs a final test. We can judge from our daily life too. Sometimes I think it is not that we do not love each other. But it is that the love is not so deep or strong enough to let us to fight the everything in life. Or it is lack the courage to walk together and to continue our life journey?
In the moment with so much question can not be answered. With so much confusing still wait to be cleared. But I know life is equal to everybody. Maybe yes maybe not, because I clear know that I just stand on by myself, Friends, how about you?
Wow Be loved to self. Still with confident to continue the life journey…
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- Reply sunnyv
- The one who can hurt us the most are the one most close to us. The reality is that we are often hurt or betrayed by those who we trust and love the most. Those who are close to us knows the most about us and our needs, so if they have the intention to hurt, then the hurt can be deep.
The same goes for love relationships. Once together, there would be lots of conflicts, guesswork, misunderstanding and mistrust. When the relationship turns bad, it would be difficult to walk the long and winding road together. You would start wondering how to face the difficult future together. You would then have to make the painful decision of whether the relationship should continue of stop.
However, I have to remind you that nobody can give you the absolute and total love without any condition. Everyone has some reservations for himself/herself. The answer to this is do not expect too much from your loved one. Give her some space. So long as she is tolerable, continue the relationship and time will tell everything.
That is one of the reasons why I prefer to remain single and don't marry. There are too many pitfalls in a marriage and can cause a lot of harm, sadness and misery to both sides.
Hope you will be able to overcome all your difficulties and live a happy life.
- Reply Rosanna
- I don't know what I can say, just tell you don't hurt and to be hurt your people around you, they are important the people in this world.
- Reply sunnyv
- Good neutral response. Don't do anything which we don't want others to do to us. Do the things good things for the good of people around you.
Rosanna: I don't know what I can say, just tell you don't hurt and to be hurt your people around you, they are important the people in this world.
- Reply teadrinking
- Well explained. Just lead the life as we want. Whatever being single or married, we are still as individuals to live on our own.
sunnyv: The one who can hurt us the most are the one most close to us. The reality is that we are often hurt or betrayed by those who we trust and love the mo ...
- Reply teadrinking
- Actually we need to keep our life. Whatever a stranger or a familiar friend, we just treat with each other equally under the principle.
Sometimes we can not avoid those betrayed friends who hurt us, we still have to face them and learn that lesson.
